Secure, Anxious & Avoidant Styles Of Attachment

I overheard one unmarried woman give another unmarried woman dating advice: “Don’t text him back. Just ignore him for a few days. That always works.”
I butted in: “That always works if you want to be with someone who’s emotionally avoidant. Anyone who’s secure will cross you off his list if you avoid him. Better to be honest about what you want, don’t play games, respond to his bids for your attention, and if he doesn’t treat you with consideration, move on to someone who will.”