It’s not uncommon to run into married Orthodox Jewish men who take pride in their comely shiksa assistants and they don’t mind letting you know that they’re tapping that.
Why do they want you to know? Because they know, wink, wink, nod, nod, that what they’re doing is widely considered cool — strictly hush hush and off the record — in the Orthodox community.
This goes for countless Orthodox rabbis in good standing in Pico-Robertson.