If A Man Tells You He’s Working On Himself…

…it simply means he’s banging some other babe (or trying to).

I encounter countless women who are madly in love with some guy who’s just not into them.

They invent all these crazy excuses for his lack of interest such as:

"He says it’s him, not me. He just needs time to work on himself."

"He’s confused right now."

"He’s very busy with his work."

If a man loves a woman, he’ll fly around the world for her. Nothing will stop him from pursuing her.

If he’s not moving heaven and earth to court her, he doesn’t love her.

End of story.

All a woman has to do when a man loves her is to not call the police on him. He’ll take all the other steps to start up a relationship.

About Luke Ford

I've written five books (see Amazon.com). My work has been covered in the New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, and on 60 Minutes. I teach Alexander Technique in Beverly Hills (Alexander90210.com).
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