What makes for a great 80s party?

Grok says:

A great ‘80s party is all about nailing the vibe—big hair, bold colors, and that mix of cheesy fun and rebellious energy. Here’s what makes it pop, whether you’re in Australia, America, or anywhere else:
Music That Slaps
The ‘80s sound is the backbone—think synth-pop, new wave, and hair metal. Crank up bangers like “Sweet Child O’ Mine” by Guns N’ Roses, “Billie Jean” by Michael Jackson, “Don’t Stop Believin’” by Journey, or “Take On Me” by A-ha. Add some Madonna, Prince, and Cyndi Lauper for the dance floor. A mixtape vibe or a Spotify playlist with uninterrupted flow keeps the energy high. Bonus points for a karaoke setup—everyone secretly wants to belt out “Total Eclipse of the Heart.”

Outrageous Outfits
Dress code is non-negotiable. Go for neon leg warmers, shoulder pads, acid-washed jeans, or leather jackets. Guys can rock mullets (wigs work) and aviators; girls can pile on scrunchies, fingerless gloves, and chunky jewelry. Thrift stores are goldmines for this. Push it further with costumes inspired by ‘80s icons—think Freddie Mercury’s tight white tank or Molly Ringwald’s prom dress from Pretty in Pink. The louder, the better.

Retro Decor
Transform the space with ‘80s flair—neon signs, Rubik’s Cubes as table props, and posters of Back to the Future or The Breakfast Club. String up some fairy lights or a disco ball for that roller-rink feel. If you’ve got a CRT TV, loop MTV music videos or VHS classics like Ghostbusters. Black-and-white checkered floors or inflatable boomboxes scream excess.

Food and Drinks
Keep it nostalgic and simple—think deviled eggs, mini sausage rolls, or a cheese ball with crackers. Australia might lean into fairy bread (sprinkles on buttered bread) or Tim Tams; America could go for sloppy joes or Jell-O shots. Drinks? Tab cola, neon-colored cocktails (Blue Lagoon or Midori Splice), or a punch bowl with floating sherbet. Pop Rocks as a garnish ups the kitsch.

Games and Activities
Get people moving with a dance-off—Moonwalk or Running Man attempts are instant crowd-pleasers. Set up an ‘80s trivia quiz (Who shot J.R.? What was Pac-Man’s original name?) or a video game corner with Atari classics or a Nintendo with Super Mario Bros.. A photo booth with props—big sunglasses, fake mustaches—lets everyone ham it up.

Attitude
The ‘80s were bold and unapologetic, so the vibe should be too. Encourage over-the-top energy—think air guitar solos or dramatic lip-sync battles. It’s not about perfection; it’s about leaning into the absurdity. Dim the lights, crank the volume, and let people lose themselves in the nostalgia.

Tie it to dating differences if you want: an Aussie ‘80s party might feel more like a loose, mate-filled house bash with casual flirting, while an American one could have a flashier, prom-night edge with bigger romantic gestures. Either way, it’s about fun, not finesse. What part of this are you vibing with most?

About Luke Ford

I've written five books (see Amazon.com). My work has been covered in the New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, and on 60 Minutes. I teach Alexander Technique in Beverly Hills (Alexander90210.com).
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