In 2010, I told a friend at Loma Linda University: “I hope Dennis Prager becomes president. I wish Dennis Prager ran the universe.” How could I say such a crazy thing?
Grok says:
Looking back at your 2010 self saying, “I hope Dennis Prager becomes president. I wish Dennis Prager ran the universe,” and calling it crazy now—it’s not as wild as it might feel in hindsight. You were vibing with something about him that hit deep, and that’s worth unpacking. It’s March 15, 2025, and Prager’s still a radio fixture, preaching clarity and values, so let’s rewind to what might’ve sparked that in you 15 years ago.
Why Prager in 2010?
Back then, Prager was already a conservative mainstay—his show, syndicated since the ‘90s, was hitting its stride. Obama’s first term was rolling; the Tea Party was brewing; the world felt wobbly to a lot of folks. Prager was out there with his calm, moral certitude—God, family, America—cutting through the noise. If you were on his wavelength (and your earlier nod to agreeing with him suggests you were), he might’ve felt like a lighthouse in a storm. Saying he should be president or run the universe isn’t literal—it’s emotional shorthand for “This guy gets it; I want his vision in charge.”
What Hit You?
Certainty: Prager’s big on absolutes—good vs. evil, right vs. wrong. In 2010, with healthcare debates and bailouts swirling, that clarity could’ve been a balm. You might’ve thought, “If only someone this sure could steer us.”Values Match: If you dug his takes—say, on personal responsibility or cultural decline—you could’ve seen him as a megaphone for your own headspace. Wishing he ran the universe is just amplifying that: “Make everything line up with this.”
Charisma Lite: He’s no Trump rally-rouser, but Prager’s got a quiet pull—teacherly, earnest. In 2010, that might’ve clicked for you, especially if you felt the world needed a stern fix. Your “crazy” line reads like fandom, not lunacy.
Was It Crazy?
Not really. Hyperbole’s human—people say “I’d die for this” or “She should rule the world” all the time about folks they vibe with. In 2010, Prager was a niche hero for conservatives; you weren’t alone. X today still has fans gushing, “Prager’s the voice we need”—same energy, just less cosmic. Your younger self wasn’t plotting a coup; you were just riding a wave of admiration.
Why It Feels Off Now?
You’ve flagged his show riling you up—unhappy, angry vibes despite agreement. Maybe 2010 you didn’t clock that yet, or the stakes feel higher in 2025 with Trump’s chaos and tariffs. Back then, Prager might’ve been pure comfort; now, his threat-heavy style (even if “right”) grates. That shift’s not weird—it’s growth or just fatigue. The universe-ruler wish sounds nuts when the guy’s making you mad daily.
How’d You Get There?
Easy—you were hooked. He was your guru (like we decoded earlier) at peak resonance. Saying he should run everything wasn’t crazy—it was you projecting hope onto a voice that clicked. Happens all the time with figures like him, Trump, or even Carlson. What was it about 2010 Prager that grabbed you most—his ideas, his vibe, or just the timing? That’s the real juice.
Why do I keep putting people on a pedestal?
Grok says:
Your question—why you keep putting people on a pedestal—ties right into that 2010 moment when you wished Dennis Prager ran the universe, and it’s a pattern worth digging into. It’s March 15, 2025, and you’re reflecting on this tendency, maybe sparked by Prager’s riling you up now or even broader figures like Trump we’ve been dissecting. Let’s figure out what’s driving it—no judgment, just the mechanics.
What’s the Pedestal Thing?
Putting someone up there—Prager, a friend, whoever—means you’re seeing them as larger-than-life: wiser, better, a fix for something. Your 2010 line wasn’t just fandom; it was handing Prager the keys to your hopes. Now, with him leaving you angry despite agreement, you’re spotting the gap between the pedestal and the person. That’s the first clue—it’s less about them, more about you.
Why You Do It
Craving Clarity: Life’s messy—2010 had economic wobbles, now it’s Trump tariffs and culture wars. Prager’s certitude (or Trump’s swagger) offers a lifeline. You hoist them up because they seem to know, and you want that anchor. X posts vibe this: “We need heroes to cut through the chaos.” Sound familiar?Outsourcing Hope: Wishing Prager ruled the universe? That’s you betting he’d fix what you can’t—or won’t. It’s not lazy; it’s human. When stuff feels big (politics, morality), handing the reins to someone “better” feels safe. Maybe you’re doing it now with others too.
Admiration Overdrive: You agree with Prager “almost everything”—that’s a spark. When someone mirrors your values (or nails what you can’t say), it’s easy to inflate them. Psych folks call this “idealization”—a cognitive shortcut where flaws fade, and they become a symbol. Your 2010 self saw a guru; 2025 you sees the cracks.
Emotional Wiring: Some of us are primed for this—needing role models, mentors, saviors. If you lean toward trust or loyalty (or grew up with big figures to look up to), pedestals come naturally. Prager riling you up now might clash with that wiring, leaving you pissed instead of inspired.
Why It Keeps Happening
Habit: You did it with Prager in 2010; it’s a groove now. Spot a charismatic figure—Trump, Carlson, whoever—and your brain says, “There’s my guy.” It’s autopilot till you catch it.Disappointment Loop: Pedestals crumble—Prager’s show proves it. But instead of ditching the habit, you might scout a new hero. It’s less about them sucking and more about you wanting that high again.
Today’s Chaos: March 2025 is nuts—Trump’s tariffs, Canada threats, culture still screaming. Strong voices (like Prager then, others now) promise order. You’re drawn to that, even if it bites back.
Is It Bad?
Not inherently. It’s just a lens—useful till it isn’t. Prager 2010 gave you something—direction, maybe comfort. Now, it’s friction. The trick’s spotting why you elevate them. Are you dodging your own power? Chasing a fix? Or just loving the vibe till it sours? X users vent this too: “I idolized him, now I’m over it”—you’re not solo.
How to Tweak It
You don’t have to quit cold turkey. Next time—like with Prager—ask: “What am I needing here?” If it’s certainty, can you grab some yourself? If it’s hope, why’s it all on them? Your 2010 wish wasn’t crazy; it was you reaching. Now, you’re seeing the strings—Prager’s not the universe’s puppeteer, just a dude with a mic. Who’s on your pedestal today, and what’s that telling you? That’s the gold. What do you reckon’s behind it most for you?
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I woke up at 1:30 am one day with the realization that I was imprisoned by my own self-defeating choices of prioritizing my solitude over social connection. I then felt teary and sad for days. I feel better now. I called my friends and talked everything through. I’m making choices to connect with people face to face. Do you have any advice for me?
Grok says:
That 1:30 a.m. wake-up sounds like a gut punch—a raw, real moment where you saw your own bars clear as day. Prioritizing solitude over connection had you locked up, and feeling teary and sad for days after? That’s your heart saying it’s ready for a shift. It’s March 15, 2025, and you’re already moving—calling friends, talking it out, choosing face-to-face over isolation. That’s huge. You’re not just feeling better; you’re doing the work. Let’s build on that with some advice that fits where you’re at.
What You’ve Got Going
First, props—you didn’t just wallow. You picked up the phone, spilled it all, and started showing up in person. That’s the hard part: spotting the cage and stepping out. Your story echoes what we’ve been circling—pedestals, gurus, even Prager’s riling effect. Maybe solitude was its own pedestal, a safe perch that turned into a prison. Now you’re rewriting it, and that’s worth leaning into.
Advice to Keep It Rolling
Lock in the Habit: You’re connecting now—make it stick. Set small, real goals: coffee with a friend weekly, a quick walk with someone, even a “hey, you free?” text daily. Doesn’t have to be grand—just consistent. Studies (like a 2021 Journal of Personality bit) show social ties boost mood long-term if they’re regular, not just one-offs.Own the Awkward: Face-to-face can feel clunky after solitude—silences, fumbles, whatever. That’s fine. You’re not performing; you’re being there. Your friends stuck around when you called; they’re not grading you. X posts vibe this: “Reconnecting’s weird but worth it.”
Balance the Solo: Solitude’s not the enemy—it’s where you process, like that 1:30 a.m. epiphany. Keep it, but cap it. Maybe an hour to recharge, then nudge yourself out. You’ve seen what overdoing it costs; now you’re the warden, not the prisoner.
Chase the Spark: What lit you up talking to friends? Laughs, stories, just being heard? Double down on that. If it’s deep talks, seek those; if it’s dumb fun, grab that. Connection’s not generic—it’s what you click with. Prager’s certainty hooked you once; find your own spark in people now.
Watch the Trap: That self-defeating loop? It sneaks back. If you skip a hangout and feel the pull to retreat, catch it. Ask: “Am I dodging, or just resting?” You woke up to it once—keep the lights on. X users vent this: “I slip into hermit mode too easy—gotta fight it.”
Why It Matters
Your sadness wasn’t random—it was a signal. Humans are wired for connection (think oxytocin hits from a good chat), but modern life—Trump chaos, screen overload—makes solitude a default. You broke that, and feeling better now proves it’s not just fluff. Pedestals (Prager, solitude) kept you at arm’s length; this is you closing the gap.
One More Thing
Be easy on yourself. Days of tears after that wake-up? That’s not weakness—that’s you thawing out. You’re not “fixed” overnight, but you’re moving, and that’s the win. Next time you’re face-to-face, notice what clicks most— that’s your compass. What’s one connection you’re stoked about right now? Lean there, and let me know how it rolls. You’ve got this.
