If you listen to the whispers, you won’t have to hear the screams (12-10-24)

01:00 I’m livestreaming to feel better about myself by conveying what I think is useful information about the wider world and by serving you, I serve myself
05:00 Five Chapters on Rhetoric: Character, Action, Things, Nothing, and Art, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=158142
16:00 STEP 3 BIG BOOK STUDY~JOE MCDONALD, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jzw-BxBl0UM
36:00 Israel’s Year of Dangerous Living, Part 3: On Ballots and Bullets, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNZLx9mK2r8
52:00 Kip joins to be a friend
57:00 My journey into 12-step
1:02:00 Jews invented talk therapy
1:07:00 If you listen to the whispers, you won’t have to hear the screams
1:12:00 She made me feel like a winner aka that part of me that feels like a loser calms down
1:20:00 Defining hero systems, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=146534
1:33:00 Dan Siegel’s Wheel of Awareness exercise, https://drdansiegel.com/wheel-of-awareness/
1:40:00 Luigi Magione – assassin, https://www.wsj.com/us-news/luigi-mangione-unitedhealthcare-ceo-shooting-2c23b33b?mod=trending_now_news_2
1:50:00 Does Kamala have a drinking problem? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhZJwnaxo8A
2:06:00 Dennis Prager Can Now Mouth Words, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=158099
2:09:50 WEHT to Matt Gaetz? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhZJwnaxo8A
2:12:00 America’s Syria policy (Biden v Trump)
2:14:00 Biden’s disastrous Middle East policies
2:19:00 How Mike Gallagher and Hugh Hewitt Filled In On A Cruise Filled with Dennis Prager Listeners, https://barrettmedia.com/2024/12/10/how-mike-gallagher-and-hugh-hewitt-filled-in-on-a-cruise-filled-with-dennis-prager-listeners/
2:20:45 Unhappy Dennis Prager cruise customer, https://x.com/nalepa0302/status/1865503876935549288
2:22:00 The Biden economy, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhZJwnaxo8A
2:28:00 X: BLM co-founder Hawk Newsome calls for “Black vigilantes” to hunt down and kill White New Yorkers after Daniel Penny acquittal.
2:31:50 NYT: Suspect in C.E.O. Killing Withdrew From a Life of Privilege and Promise, https://www.nytimes.com/2024/12/09/nyregion/united-healthcare-ceo-shooting-luigi-mangione.html
2:38:00 My right hamstring much tighter than left, https://www.reddit.com/r/flexibility/comments/1agabh0/right_hamstring_much_tighter_than_left/?rdt=56491
2:43:00 Chiropractic is a scam, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=118480
2:51:00 Elliott Blatt joins to discuss our crazy week
2:52:00 Elliott discusses our broken health insurance system, https://www.wsj.com/us-news/luigi-mangione-unitedhealthcare-ceo-shooting-2c23b33b?mod=trending_now_news_2
3:03:00 Richard Spencer’s new religion
3:09:00 Elliott Blatt’s dopamine fasts
3:10:00 The Long Goodbye, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Long_Goodbye_(film)
3:25:00 Crooked: Outwitting the Back Pain Industry and Getting on the Road to Recovery, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=118480
3:41:00 Why socialists are cheering the death of an insurance CEO | Reason Roundtable | December 9, 2024, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEnftm9Gqg0
3:47:10 John Podhoretz’s empathy for Trump’s desire to jail politicians who tried to jail him, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1tr3LCRqgk
3:50:00 Democratic consultant Dan Turrentine on the humiliation of Joe Biden’s obvious senility, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G3lnf4r8XFA

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Five Chapters on Rhetoric: Character, Action, Things, Nothing, and Art

I love this 2015 book by Michael S. Kochin:

* Daniel Webster: “True eloquence… must exist in the man, in the subject, and in the occasion.”

* Webster shows how this true eloquence results not merely in words or speeches but in action. We judge a speech, Webster teaches, by the character of the speaker as displayed in the speech, when we perceive the speaker’s “clear conception,” “high purpose,” “Wrm resolve,” and “dauntless spirit.”

* True eloquence is rare because most human things are determined in their courses by preexisting relationships rather than by communicated information; as the sociologist of science Bruno Latour writes, it is only at certain moments that “the strength of a word may sway alliances and demonstrate something, where very, very rarely everything else being equal, someone speaks and persuades.”

* To sustain our social lives we frequently refuse to assess the statements made to us. “That’s interesting,” we reply to the crank at the cocktail party… As Goethe wrote,
“We politely misunderstand others so that they shall misunderstand us in return.” Human relations are complex, mutable, subject to decay over time, and therefore fragile. Goethe’s point is that we preserve these complex relations by refusing to judge one another by the truth or significance of our statements.

* A genuinely disinterested party, one who had no interest in what use its audience made of the facts, would have to have no interest even in his or her own reputation as a reliable provider of relevant facts and so would be of no use to his or her audience. We therefore have no choice but to get our information from interested and thus biased sources, and we must endeavor to discount the interest motivating that mediation.

* facts “are made, as their name [factum] implies,” writes Richard McKeon, “and their making depends on structures of knowledge, action, and art from which they derive their being and interpretation.” Facts are made or fabricated; they are made within a structure, a network of persons and things: “An isolated person builds only dreams, claims, and feelings, not facts.”

* “Small are the advances which a single unassisted individual can make towards perfecting any of his powers.” (Hugh Blair)

* “Faith in science marks a degree of deference to authority that is unparalleled in human history.” (Steve Fuller)

* “When potential [leaders] are pushed by journalists, academic, and opponents to ‘stick to the issues,’ to be specific ‘on the issues,’ to ‘refrain from mudslinging,’ the admonition is to avoid the only ‘issue’ which a voter is competent to judge, the general character and trustworthiness displayed by candidates for office.” (Michael McGee)

* Harvey Yunis has described as the “inherent, unresolved discrepancy between the democratic insistence on amateurism in politics and the [people’s] need for competent leadership.”

* “the Everyman/Heroic conflict”: “Americans like for their candidates to be similar to themselves; yet they also want their candidates to excel in some particular area of character that they do not.”

* “the common man does, in the end, want uncommon leaders.”

* We evaluate the political speaker the same way Steve Fuller says we evaluate scientists: “Competence is judged in terms of an appropriate alteration of the tradition rather than a simple reenactment of it.”

* Insofar as the speaker claims to know what others do not, the speaker draws attention to himself or herself, takes responsibility for his or her advice, and thereby puts himself or herself at risk. The speaker is risking that he or she will be treated according to the consequences of those collective actions that are attributed to his or her advice. Without the claim to uniqueness the speaker is just saying what anyone else could say and so we would find listening to him or her pointless and dull. Politics is risky, and political careers are frequently short, because politicians are often torn apart by this tension between having something special to say and sharing the general concerns of the audience to whom one says it.

* any sensible person prefers, other things being equal, to have his or her interests represented by the educated and suave rather than the uneducated and inarticulate.

* The most straightforward way of controlling public information about oneself is to control one’s conduct so that there is nothing discreditable to be reported.

* The “more unique a politician’s language, the more likely he is to lose.”

* “Public people,” writes Meg Greenfield, “almost eagerly dehumanize themselves. They allow the markings of region, family, class, individual character, and, generally, personhood that they once possessed to be leached away. At the same time they construct a new public self that often does terrible damage to what remains of the genuine person.”

* on the campaign trail, “policies count, but mostly as vehicles through which each candidate displays and communicates a political persona.”

* Character is made visible in action: to show character, show the actions that express the potentials of the character. To show action, in turn, show the action’s traces in
the world in the alteration it effects in things.

* When the premier public relations firm of Hill & Knowlton counseled the Kuwaiti government on its propaganda efforts after Saddam Hussein’s 1990 invasion and occupation of Kuwait, the fim “advised the Kuwaitis to eschew talking in public about what the US government should do, and just talk about what the Iraqis are doing in Kuwait.” It is rhetorically more effective to leave one’s demands or requests implied rather than stated…

* To sway the audience is to move them by presenting in words the things that move them…

* If you aspire to seduce, “the point is not to speak the desire but to speak that which is most likely to bring about the desire.”

* One inspires anger by presenting the things that make us angry; one inspires pity by presenting the things that are pitiable. “Sympathy,” summarizes Adam Smith, “does not arise so much from the view of the passion, as from that of the situation which excites it.”

* To know we must trust. Yet we trust those who refrain from asking us to trust them but instead invite us to judge for ourselves. The most persuasive argument is the one that the audience cannot help but make in response to the things the speaker has presented.

* Those who have credible reputations rely on these reputations to persuade, while those who lack reputation must have something to say… “Evidence is, in effect, a ‘substitute’ for credibility.” In American elections, challengers favor advertisements laden with policy content and factual assertions, while incumbents favor advertisements that focus on their life stories or their records of achievement.104 Parliamentary majorities vote and decide, and their backbenchers are supposed to stay quiet in the House
of Commons so that work can be done. Parliamentary minorities, by contrast, talk, and in particular, the opposition has to try to talk its way into power by being as specific and concrete as possible.

* To say something clear and unequivocal draws attention. But to draw attention, to be seen, is to take the risk of being seen to get things wrong and thus “to be wrong.”

* people are silenced by what they perceive as public disapproval of their opinions, and they tend to adjust their opinion to conform to what they perceive as the climate of opinion… The spiral-of-silence effect thus favors the vocal, the activists, or those who have the favor of the media.

* “to the extent that a group is attractive for an individual, and to the extent that he desires acceptance as a member of that group, he will be motivated—whether he is aware of it or not—to accept that group’s outlook.” It is enough to hope to join a group to feel pressured to conform to group opinions, so “an individual’s opinions will be substantially affected by the opinions of others whose company he keeps, or whose company he aspires to keep.”

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Let Russ Cook

Russell Wilson was a good quarterback for the Seattle Seahawks from 2012 to 2021 and then a terrible quarterback for the Denver Broncos in 2022 and 2023 and now he’s a good quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers.

Why was Russell good in some circumstances and terrible in other circumstances? Because his skills are a great fit for some situations and a terrible fit for other situations.

Herschel Walker was a superstar for the Georgia Bulldogs between 1980 and 1982 and for the Dallas Cowboys in 1988. Aside from those seasons, he was average. Herschel was great in certain situations for a certain time, and not so great aside from that.

Sometimes the team makes the man just as a man can make a team.

In 1989, Herschel was traded to the Minnesota Vikings where he was nothing special. Scout.com said, “Walker was never used properly by the coaching brain trust.”

In 2022, he proved to be a terrible politician when he ran in Georgia for the U.S. Senate.

After Joe Biden began his journey into senility in 2017, he was only going to become president under limited circumstances such as Covid that allowed him to largely stay home during the campaign.

Donald Trump would never have beaten Joe Biden in the 2016 campaign, but Trump was lucky enough to run against a poor politician, Hillary Clinton. In 2024, Trump was lucky enough to run against another poor politician, Kamala Harris

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How Should The United States Promote Democracy?

I think there’s an insight from AA that would be useful in American democracy advocacy — rely on attraction not promotion.

I’ve been watching a bunch of journalists and Middle East experts proclaim that America has vital interests in Syria, and I’m suspecting that these individuals have vital interests promoting perspectives on Syria that are contradictory to American interests.

Imagine you’ve spent your adult life specializing in Syria and now is your moment to go on CNN or to publish in the New York Times about how important Syria is. Your personal interests and the national interests are contradictory. On the face of it, America has not vital interests in Syria, but the more dramatic and important you can present the situation in Syria, the more you can advance your interests as a journalist and Middle East expert.

Imagine how exciting it must be to play the great game of geo-politics when compared to the humdrum task of focusing on American welfare.

If you are not a member of AA, AA won’t take your money. Even if you do identify as an alcoholic, AA limits how much money you can give (no more than about $2,000 a year) lest ego interfere with the best functioning of the group.

Instead of intervening all over the world to promote democracy, American interests would be better served by a policy of attraction not promotion.

Why does America stick its beak all over God’s little green acre? Because it can. It has no worries in its own sphere.

What type of men have affairs? Those men who can. Which men are least likely to commit adultery? Those men with the fewest options to commit adultery.

When men have the opportunity to promote themselves, they usually will, even if comes at the cost of the general welfare.

From Alabama AA:

The principle of “attraction, not promotion” has been a foundational tenet guiding Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) since its inception. This principle emphasizes AA’s inherent value and effectiveness, drawing individuals seeking help through the power of personal testimony and genuine connection. This principle has played a critical role in AA’s success and provides concrete examples of its application within AA groups.

The Historical Roots of “Attraction, Not Promotion”

The principle of attraction over promotion was born from lessons from the Washingtonian Society, a 19th-century temperance organization. Founded in 1840, the Washingtonians initially experienced rapid growth by focusing on one drunk talking to another, a model similar to AA. However, they eventually expanded their mission to include various social reform causes, from temperance to prison reform and even political advocacy. This shift diluted their focus, leading to internal divisions and eventual downfall.

Bill Wilson, cofounder of AA, was acutely aware of the Washingtonians’ history. He recognized that for AA to succeed, it needed to maintain a single-minded focus: helping alcoholics achieve sobriety through mutual support. Wilson also realized that alcoholics often resist being told what to do, rebelling against authoritative or prescriptive approaches. Instead, he saw the power of sharing personal experiences-what worked and what didn’t-in fostering genuine connections and promoting sobriety…

The Risks of Ignoring “Attraction, Not Promotion”
Ignoring the principle of “attraction, not promotion” can have detrimental effects on AA groups, old-timers, and newcomers. Groups have dissolved because they have gotten away from this principle. Here are some potential pitfalls:

1. Ignoring Group Unity:
Problem: Allowing individual rights to trump group welfare and unity.
Consequence: This can create conflicts and divisions within the group, undermining its effectiveness and cohesion. The focus must remain on collective well-being, ensuring a supportive environment.
Question for Your Group: Are you doing everything possible to enhance the group’s welfare instead of getting your way?
2. Focusing on Outside Issues:
Problem: Discussing outside issues such as politics, religion, and non-conference-approved literature during meetings.
Consequence: Such discussions can alienate newcomers who may feel compelled to adopt certain beliefs or affiliations. It is crucial that no one feels pressured to study the Bible, profess any religious beliefs, or belong to any political party. AA’s strength lies in its singular focus on recovery from alcoholism.
Question for Your Group: Does your group address outside issues in meetings when they come up?
3. Threatening Activities:
Problem: Allowing behaviors that some perceive as an unsafe environment, such as inappropriate language, sexual advances, or threatening behavior.
Consequence: Such activities can make members uncomfortable and unsafe, driving them away. Establishing a sense of safety is paramount to ensuring that everyone feels welcome and supported.
Question for Your Group: Does your group address threatening behaviors and resolve following the 12 traditions?
4. Aggressive Recruitment Tactics:
Problem: Directly approaching individuals in public spaces to recruit them to AA.
Consequence: This can make people feel uncomfortable and pressured, negatively impacting the group’s reputation. People may perceive the group as pushy or invasive, driving potential members away.
Question for Your Group: Does your group recruit alcoholics before they’re ready?
5. Celebrity Endorsements:
Problem: Using celebrities to endorse AA publicly. Generally, this can be done by posting celebrity quotes or videos to social media or other publicity methods.
Consequence: Such endorsements can create a perception of AA as a branded entity rather than a support group, potentially alienating those seeking genuine help. It shifts the focus from mutual support to image management.
Question for Your Group: Does your group use celebrity endorsements to enhance the AA status?
6. Public Fundraising Events:
Problem: Hosting large public fundraisers for the group.
Consequence: This shifts the focus from mutual support to financial goals, distracting from AA’s primary purpose and potentially eroding trust. Members may feel the group is more interested in money than helping people. Plus, there is an obvious issue with anonymity when participating in public gatherings.
Question for Your Group: Does your group rely on outside public fundraisers and donations?
7. Compromising Anonymity:
Problem: Failing to maintain the anonymity of members by sharing names or personal details publicly.
Consequence: Breaching anonymity can destroy trust and make members feel unsafe, decreasing participation. Anonymity is crucial in maintaining a safe space for members.
Question for Your Group: Does your group protect individual anonymity in public spaces?
The principle of “attraction, not promotion” is vital for Alcoholics Anonymous’s success and integrity because it fosters a welcoming, anonymous, and supportive environment that appeals to both newcomers and long-time members. This approach naturally draws individuals seeking help without the need for aggressive promotion. By focusing on personal connections and genuine support, AA creates a safe space where members feel valued and respected, encouraging continued participation and engagement.

Bill Wilson’s early insights and the historical lessons from the Washingtonians highlight the importance of maintaining a singular focus on mutual support and recovery. Adhering to this principle ensures that AA groups stay true to their mission, providing a safe and effective space for everyone in need, from those just beginning their journey to those who have been in recovery for many years.

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Does Hayat Tahrir al-Sham (HTS) Know It’s Christmas? (12-8-24)

01:00 I’m a broad-minded guy but Black Doves and the new Netflix documentary were too much for me Saturday night
09:00 Joe Biden pardons Hunter
15:00 SYRIA COLLAPSING: Trump Says ‘Let It Play Out’ – What It Means for Israel and the U.S.?, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HlL4PxQgiLk
32:30 Liberals Need Conservatives – Geoffrey Asmus, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNg-VKVnXNE
39:30 NYT: For 8 Months, Traffic Enforcement on New Jersey’s Highways Plummeted, https://www.nytimes.com/2024/12/08/nyregion/new-jersey-state-police-slowdown.html
45:00 NYT: After Failed Martial Law, South Koreans Ask: Who’s in Charge?,
https://www.nytimes.com/2024/12/08/world/asia/south-korea-martial-law-yoon.html
48:00 On the Warpath: My Battles With Indians, Pretendians, and Woke Warriors, https://www.aporiamagazine.com/p/on-the-warpath
53:00 Elizabeth Weiss was married to Phil Rushton (she was wife #3 or #4, he had children from three different women)
1:07:20 Body positivity, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThcBzfGxcYQ
1:12:00 Pollster Scott Rasmussen on post-election findings @ American Legislative Exchange Council (12/5/24), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lhn1ZU2F5P0
1:27:00 Ezra Klein: In This House, We’re Angry When Government Fails, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZT4lxJKj0I0
1:32:20 Kip joins the show
1:33:00 Kip discusses the moralizing of liberalism
1:59:00 Where will our right-wing intellectuals come from?
2:10:00 Varying levels of narcissism are more or less adaptive depending upon the situation
2:22:00 Rethinking Narcissism: The Bad – and Surprising Good – About Feeling Special, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=129773
2:28:00 Andy Ngo: Hayat Tahrir al-Sham (HTS) has committed mass human atrocities for Islam, https://x.com/MrAndyNgo/status/1865738164247409093

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