How Livestreaming Made Me A Better Man

Dispensing your opinions online tends to degenerate most people as they develop an e-personality that corrodes their real life.

I started blogging in 1997 and I’ve experienced my share of the perils of the e-personality (carelessness, impulsiveness, thoughtlessness, self-aggrandizement, audience capture, over-sharing). Aside from these dangers, there’s also the cost of what you did online eliminating other possibilities for your life.

Here are some possible ways that livestreaming (and I have deleted less than 1% of everything I’ve produced live) makes me a better man:

* I learn that almost everyone I talk about hears about what I have said, and so I have to stand behind my words, or apologize for them.
* I get a regular test for prioritizing my real self or my e-self? The more priority I put on my e-self, the more off track I get in life.
* I learn to make peace with making mistakes and trade-offs. When I start a show, there are many things I want to explore, but as soon as I press the button to go live, the technical and social demands of the show eat away at my energy, enthusiasm and cognitive powers, and so my conversational palette narrows. I lean on my notes as the ideas fly from my head (and I consistently fail to do adequate preparation). There are so many things to look after with a live show, with sound quality being number one, and paying attention to one aspect of your show takes you away from other things. For example, I try to write down time stamps on every show, but when I’m doing that, I’m not saying anything or listening to anything or paying attention to anything else.
* I recognize that most people are better off without my show, and that people who were key parts of my show have moved on for good reasons.
* I learn to stand on my own two feet and to not need audience approval. I’ve often said things on a show that everybody in the audience strongly disagrees with (for example, I believe the establishment views on combatting Covid have been more right than wrong, and I don’t believe that our elites are evil and bent on our destruction). I risked and lost relationships for the sake of saying what I believe to be true. That is a good test in life. You can cuck to your relationships, or you can heedlessly burn your relationships, or you can try steer a middle path, valuing both things and making considered choices.
* I learn to listen to many points of view and to talk to people from all over the world.
* I learn to present my ideas in ways that will have the widest opportunity to be heard. I learned to talk about controversial topics in ways that are the most socially acceptable.
* On every show, I confront who I am, what I look like, what I sound like, how prepared I am, and the quality of my choices. You often get more honest feedback from anonymous people online than you do from people you see face to face.
* I get to bring on the show a feeling for my most important relationships, and when I carry that love, I make better choices. A large part of me, when undisciplined by gratitude, loves the cynical blistering remark a little too much.
* A large part of being a man is protecting and providing. Livestreaming is one more opportunity to do this.
* With every social media post, you finetune your circle of friends by making public what you are about.

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A Fan’s Life: The Agony of Victory and the Thrill of Defeat by Paul Campos

William Davis writes in the May 18, 2023 LROB:

* Adam Smith’s famous metaphor of an ‘invisible hand’ guiding markets was one of the Enlightenment’s many appeals to a fictional outsider, supposed to be a barometer of value. Since then, the discipline of economics has implicitly assumed that markets are instruments of justice, in that the price system is oblivious of the cultural identity or political status of its participants.

* The anxiety buzzing in the background throughout A Fan’s Life is that fandom, having entered the public square, has now infected American culture and politics at large, with the eager support of big monied interests.

* Once liberalism gave way to neoliberalism, the bourgeoisie were no longer tasked with sustaining juridical ideals of fairness and balance in society, but were tasked instead with whipping up enthusiasm.

* Once there is sufficient space for every opinion and claim to be published, what need is there for anyone to be looking down on them from a position of assumed disinterest? Fandom can become the norm instead. The internet is less a ‘marketplace of ideas’ (as conservatives and libertarians would have it) and more a ‘marketplace of passions’.

This has significant knock-on effects for the rest of the media, especially the liberal media that once sought to distinguish themselves in terms of their commitment to facts, neutrality and critical distance – values which, in a public sphere awash with fandom, can appear both technically unnecessary and culturally haughty.

* Nationalism, after all, is a form of fandom, which rebels against the constraints of liberal reason by expressing an unapologetic bias for one ‘side’ against every other. Outrageous conservative media outlets such as Fox News (founded in 1996) and Breitbart (2005) have nourished the sense that nobody is free from bias or prejudice, and that it is only the liberal elite who would ever pretend to be so in the first place. The internet isn’t just a space where fans debate with one another, but also where tribes build up a distorted and hateful picture of their enemies. ‘While sports allegiances can be seen as a sublimated form of politics,’ Campos argues, ‘political allegiances can also be understood as a form of sublimated fandom of the more traditional kind.’

* the mentality that distrusts all claims to neutrality ends up seeing corruption everywhere.

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Decoding Germans & Jews (8-9-23)

01:00 Different groups have different interests sometimes
03:00 It’s racist to force people to return to the work
20:00 German and Jews (2016), https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/germans_and_jews
22:00 Germans and Jews, https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5718290/
35:00 Can you have too much Holocaust education?

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Decoding The Republican Brain (8-8-23)

01:00 The Republican Brain, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149724
04:00 People Often Base Their Worldview On Bogus Facts, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149510
43:00 HP: Richard Hanania, Rising Right-Wing Star, Wrote For White Supremacist Sites Under Pseudonym, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149672
44:00 Steve Sailer: Richard Hanania’s “The Origins of Woke: Civil Rights Law, Corporate America, and the Triumph of Identity Politics”, https://www.unz.com/isteve/richard-hananias-the-origins-of-woke-civil-rights-law-corporate-america-and-the-triumph-of-identity-politics/
47:00 Where the left is anti-science
49:00 Fear drives people to the right
51:00 Mickey Kaus on Ron DeSantis’s failing campaign, https://anncoulter.substack.com/
52:00 Black conservatives like Tim Scott are quick to play the race card
55:00 Ann Coulter on traditional marriage
57:00 Conservatives jettison traditional Christian principles to go after Biden
59:00 Is it better to meet dates at work or online?
1:02:00 Kill the Boer chant in South Africa
1:05:00 Many American journalists hate white people

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The Case For Muslim Immigration

In all the articles decrying Donald Trump’s attempts to limit Muslim immigration, I didn’t see many arguments for why America benefits from Muslim immigration.

Why don’t minority groups put more effort into making the case that they benefit the majority? I rarely see that. Instead, minorities like to emphasize their rights, but they rarely talk about their obligations to the majority.

I have naturalistic and realistic view of human nature and group competition. If your group, by and large, has a net positive effect on other groups, I expect opposition to your group to be less intense than if your group, by and large, has a net negative effect. If all indications are that your group has a neutral effect on the majority, and your group is under fire for damaging the majority, making the case for your group’s neutral effect seems like a wise thing to do.

Why should we expect other people to celebrate us if we’re not doing more good for them than harm?

I’ve heard good arguments that the more united a country, the stronger, more cohesive and more trusting and more happy it is. I am sure this is true in many cases, and not true in other circumstances. Still, minority groups should strive to contribute more than they take, because on the face of things, their very presence, for a substantial part of the population, reduces social cohesion and social trust.

My view is that everything is contingent. In some circumstances, hating out-groups is adaptive and in other circumstances, it is maladaptive. In some circumstances, Jews and Muslims and Christians exhibit certain generalizable group differences, and in other circumstances, these differences disappear. I don’t think there’s any inherent quality among Jews, Muslims, Christians and other groups.

Osman Faruqi is the culture editor for The Age in Melbourne and for the Sydney Morning Herald. He writes July 31, 2023:

Sonia Kruger’s Logie win wasn’t a shock, but it was still depressing to watch

[A]ccording to comments Kruger made in 2016, where she called for a ban on Muslim migration, people like Khawaja, and people like me, shouldn’t be allowed into this country.

In 2019, the NSW Civil and Administrative Tribunal found Kruger had vilified Muslims after she made the comments on Today (broadcast on Nine, the owner of this masthead). In response to a column written by Andrew Bolt, Kruger said: “Personally I think Andrew Bolt has a point here that there is a correlation between the number of Muslims in a country and the number of terrorist attacks.

“Personally, I would like to see it [the immigration of Muslims] stopped now for Australia,” Kruger said.

The tribunal said Kruger “made it clear she did not think every Muslim in Australia or overseas was a fanatic”, but taken in context, her comments were likely to encourage or incite “feelings of hatred towards, or serious contempt for, Australian Muslims as a whole” by linking them to terrorist attacks.

Those comments, Kruger’s failure to walk them back, and the fact they weren’t an impediment to her winning the biggest prize in TV are a sad reflection on Australian culture. It’s tempting to say something cliché about how the situation should be a wake-up call to how unseriously Australia, and in particular the entertainment industry, treats issues of race and diversity, but I am under no illusion this will change anything.

Nowhere in his article does he make the case for why Australia, on net, benefits from Muslim immigration.

If people have arguments, normally they make arguments. If they don’t have the facts on their side, they try other tactics.

If it is bleedingly obvious that Muslim immigration benefits Australia, make that case. I’m open to it. I don’t think there’s any inherent quality in Muslims that automatically makes them a bad fit for Australia. The term “Muslim” without further context has almost no meaning. Muslims from Saudi Arabia are very different from Thai Muslims just as German Jews are different from Sephardic Jews.

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