This movie ripped me up inside. Growing up in foster care for most of my first five years, I’m susceptible to cults and charismatic father figures.
I can’t recall a movie that was more painful for me to watch because I so identified with the Channing Tatum character (Mark Schultz) and I saw how he was going to bring misery to his family.
I kept saying to myself while watching the movie, “If I can just limit the damage I do to my family with my shenanigans.”
The movie also reminded me of vast swathes of fundamentalist religion and New Age cults where you can get love and support, but only if you sign on with an insane program and insane authority figures.
Wikipedia: “It is based on the true events surrounding John du Pont’s efforts in hiring the Schultz brothers to help train US wrestling and swimming Olympians, and du Pont’s subsequent murder of David Schultz.”
So if a woman with cats met a guy she liked who was allergic to cats, would she choose the guy or her cats? A cat allergic friend of mine was passed over as a potential boyfriend so this Jewish woman could stick with her cats. This seems crazy to me. I may be wrong, but in my experience, Jewish women are more susceptible to this type of craziness. I had a GF who was frequently more attached to her dog (which she shared with an ex-boyfriend) than to me. Taking care of her dog frequently took precedence over taking care of me and I have immense needs (which is why she fled after a year).
I never want to attach myself to a woman who is going to put her pets and her kids before our relationship.
Beth: “I’d choose my cats. They were there first and when I got them it was a lifelong promise. Most “allergies” to cats are actually just dislike. And if the guy is actually severely allergic, he can get allergy shots. Rehoming a pet is difficult and usually ends with the animal being euthanized. A man who expects me to kill my pet for him isn’t worth my time.”
Brandy: “Cats. Sorry, they were there first and I made a forever promise to them.”
Lisa: “I’m with Beth. I know my dog will be here no matter what another human being does or does not do.”
Hes: “Her cats. I know this thanks to a friend of mine in this exact situation.”
Sara: “It’s not about liking cats or not. I like cats but allergic to some of them. Guy I’m currently dating has a cat I’m allergic to and its a problem and the reason why I rarely go to his place.”
Male friends of mine feel like their wives love their iPhones more than they love them. The wives certainly more attentive to their phones. I refuse to compete with an iPhone. If I am talking to someone who’s looking at her phone, I stop talking and I move on. I’ve left dates when this happened. It’s only happened on first dates.
I remember meeting one woman at Sinai Temple over Succoth. We went out for the first time and she kept jumping on her phone. I never wanted to date her again. She pursued me for years afterward, but I couldn’t take her seriously. I always had severe reservations about her from the disrespectful way she treated me on our first date.
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* One girl says: “I have live all my life in California ..studied Midwifery also a hair stylist. am now in Ghana /west of Africa to visit my sick mum .I will return to the state very soon”
* Met a girl on OKCupid who wrote: “First of all, I’m polyamorous and pretty picky about who’s a likely potential partner, but I’m always happy to meet interesting people in the area to chat with and socialize with. I am new to living on the Westside and it would be nice to meet some friends. And well, the more I like you, the more likely I am eventually to want to date you. Shocking, that!
As for more about me, I’m interested in academic study of history, legal systems and religion, especially Judaism…”
* Met a girl on OKCupid who described herself as a “down to earth and humble educated Mexican.”
* Another girl: My self-summary
I have a stellar Star Trek paper mâché collection and I do believe in dinosaurs
What I’m doing with my life
I work the streets trying to pay that rent
I’m really good at
Making farting noises. I can make a farting noise with any of my body parts & i take my great pride in it.
* I met a girl on OKCupid who wrote: The most private thing I’m willing to admit:
I think I once slept with a retarded person
* If some guy would go out and deliver a final solution to all the hookers mucking up my Tinder feed, he’d be doing a mitzvah.
* It’s not fair. Every woman on OKCupid who’s looking for casual sex, she’s already reached her message limit.
* “I coach people around their sexuality, desire, and orgasm through a practice called Orgasmic Meditation (OM), and I absolutely love my work.” Damn, her message box is full.
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In her ongoing work about daily life in Angola, Ghana and Kenya, among other countries affected by the oil and gas activities, photographer Nicola Sacco has sought to understand the impact on youths and their local communities of the concept of Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR). Non-governmental organizations (NGOs) in oil and gas-rich African countries have established a number of projects that aim to support local communities, embrace responsibility for corporate actions and encourage a positive impact. Some observers criticize these projects, saying it’s not always clear if they really intend to improve living conditions of the residents or are only “greenwashing” — putting on a mask of being eco-friendly. In Sacco’s view, a paradox exists in many regions where oil and gas is extracted and processed, but the communities lack the necessary infrastructure to take advantage of the resources for their own internal use.
“My photographs try to highlight the so called ‘oil curse.’ The photographs show not only desperate areas like the Niger Delta, where the environment and the society are devastated by decades of oil spills, oil thefts, government negligence and corruption, but also daily life images where you can see the hard work that schools, NGOs and local individuals carry out in order to alleviate these imbalances for the betterment of the youth. Oil and gas rich countries like Luanda where you see young boys skateboarding, or in Ghana where a women washes her clothes, are all part of the same context where local NGOs operate to bring education and protection to vulnerable communities.”
Sacco documented her understanding of how local and international organizations focus their energy on programs that aim to protect youths and women, by offering them education and social protection. Why not association, for example, was founded in 2000 by a group of young people living in a slum to promote education and fight youth unemployment.
There’s no paradox here. Sub-saharan African countries have an average IQ around 70. Per capita GNP correlates about .7 with average IQ.
In his new book, Vanhanen distinguishes six measures of poverty/wealth and checks how well they correlate with IQ:
Gross National Income per capita;
rate of enrollment in tertiary education;
childhood mortality rate
life expectancy at birth;
sanitation;
Vanhanen’s own “index of democratization,” measuring levels of political participation and competition. This index was developed in his previous book The Limits of Democratization. (See my VDARE.com review). Identifying lack of democracy as a form of poverty, however, seems questionable to me.
Here are the correlations with national IQ from a survey of 178 countries:
National income per capita: .646
Tertiary education: .787
Child mortality: .795
Life expectancy: .815
Sanitation: .725
Index of Democratization: .556
From these six dimensions of poverty, Vanhanen constructs an overall Index of Global Inequality (IGI). This comprehensive figure correlates better with IQ than any of the six dimensions taken singly, at .864.
This means that natural differences in IQ can explain nearly three-quarters of global inequality (=0.864²). All environmental factors taken together do not explain more than one quarter of the difference.
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Rep. Steve Scalise (R-La.), the House majority whip, acknowledged Monday that he spoke at a gathering hosted by white-supremacist leaders while serving as a state representative in 2002, thrusting a racial controversy into House Republican ranks days before the party assumes control of both congressional chambers.
Scalise, 49, who ascended to the House GOP’s third-ranking post this year, confirmed through an adviser that he once appeared at a convention of the European-American Unity and Rights Organization, or EURO. But the adviser said the congressman didn’t know at the time about the group’s affiliation with racists and neo-Nazi activists.
“For anyone to suggest that I was involved with a group like that is insulting and ludicrous,” Scalise told the Times-Picayune on Monday night. The organization, founded by former Ku Klux Klan leader David Duke, has been called a hate group by several civil rights organizations.
What do these white supremacists believe they are supreme at? These articles never say. They just throw around the slur “white supremacist.” I am well acquainted with all of the leaders of what the MSM call “white supremacy” and none of them are white supremacists. What they are is the white equivalent of Zionists. They want a homeland for their people so they can work out their destiny for themselves without interference from outsiders. When Jews establish their own country, that’s a wonderful thing, but when whites try to do the same thing, that’s evil.
And what do these “white supremacists” believe whites are supreme at? Playing cornerback? There hasn’t been a starting white cornerback in the NFL since Jason Sehorn with the New York Giants. I can’t remember the last starting white tailback in the NFL. There are many areas of life where “white supremacists” would have no problem admitting whites are not supreme at.
I actually think “White Supremacist” is not bad semantically. White supremacy, in the sense of a society in which key decisions are made by white Europeans, is one of the better arrangements History has come up with. There have of course been some blots on the record, but I don`t see how it can be denied that net-net, white Europeans have made a better job of running fair and stable societies than has any other group.
Even non-whites acknowledge this in unguarded moments: this Zimbabwean blogger, for example, or the American high school student in this exchange with his teacher:
“One day I asked the bored, black faces staring back at me: “What would happen if all the white people in America disappeared tomorrow?”
“We screwed,” a young, pitch-black boy screamed back. The rest of the blacks laughed.[ A White Teacher Speaks Out, American Renaissance, July 2009]”
Non-white supremacy is after all the rule over much of the world, from entire continental spaces like sub-Saharan Africa to individual black-run or mestizo-run municipalities in the U.S.A. I see no great floods into these places by refugees desperate to escape the horrors of white supremacy.
We should not let our enemies dictate vocabulary to us, though. In any case, the Whatever Right contains many separatists—who, far from wanting to lord it over nonwhites, just want to get away from them.
No, “White Supremacist” really won`t do, even in an owning-the-insult spirit.
“White Nationalist,” which has a fairly healthy currency here on the Whadda-We-Call-Ourselves Right, strikes me as even more problematical. What is the nation to which “nationalist” is the referent? “White” isn`t a nation, nor likely to become one.
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The autopsy of Ezell Ford, a mentally ill black man killed by police in South Los Angeles in August, shows he was shot three times — once in the right side, once in the right back and once in the right arm.
The release of the autopsy Monday marks the first time authorities have provided details about Ford’s wounds since his Aug. 11 death.
The gunshot wound on his back showed the surrounding skin had a “muzzle imprint,” according to the autopsy, suggesting the shot was made at very close range. The autopsy said the back and side gunshot wounds were fatal.
Because the media censors black on white crime, there are many more cases that we can not identify from limited media reports.
This list also does not include white killed by blacks, in which there is no known suspect or description of a suspect. As you can see, a huge percentage of black on white murders are random stranger killings. Random killings are the hardest to solve.
We would like to extend a special thank you to NewNation.org. This site has uncovered a lot of censored black on white hate crime/thrill kill style murders using online obituaries.
To submit a white on black murder, you can use the form at the bottom. Please check and make sure it is not someone already on the list.
To provide the most complete picture of black/white interracial violence, we are also compiling a list of white on black murders. We have issued a challenge for the public to find actual white on black murders occurring in 2014. We even issued a challenge to the SPLC, since they hype a narrative that blacks live in fear of whites. So far we have only found three white on black murders, killed by two perps, for 2014.
One white on black murder is a major national news story. Where is the outrage for the daily occurring black on white murders?
Present Tally: 351
Hold Up/Hate Crime/Thrill Kill: 168*
Pizza Shop: 5
Cab Driver: 6
Police Officers Killed: 9
Home Invasion: 58
Killed By A Friend: 20
Killed while providing charity: 2
Femicide: 49**
Femicide Related: 14***
Killed by boyfriend’s brother: 2
Killed by son/daughter: 2
Killed by female in-law: 1
Killed by foster child: 1
Killed by foster parents: 1
Criminal Vehicular Homicide: 13****
*Some victims may have been killed by someone they knew, but the media never reported the full details.
**There were numerous suspicious deaths of white females who died of drug overdoses while they were with black males. There is another case where a white female supposedly “shot herself playing Russian Roulette” with her black boyfriend. We only listed cases that were classified as murder by the authorities. We did not list cases in which a black male played an obvious role in the death, but the death was classified as accidental. There was one case of a white female being killed by a black female “ex-wife.” There are also numerous cases of a white female being shot by a play male while in the company of a black boyfriend. we did not count these as “femicide.” However, it seems that white females involved with black males are at a dramatically increased risk of being murdered by a black male in general.
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NO contraception, no dole – that’s the view of an ex-Labor Minister who believes welfare should be linked to compulsory contraception.
Gary Johns, writing in The Australian, suggests there should be “no taxpayer inducement to have children”.
The former MP who served in the Keating government admits such a measure will “undoubtedly affect strugglers, [and] … Aboriginal and Islander people in great proportions”.
“But the idea that someone can have the taxpayer, as of right, fund the choice to have a child is repugnant.”
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Americans are a little less likely to ask what they can do for their country these days.
An Associated Press-GfK poll found that the sense of duty has slipped since a similar survey three decades earlier. Civic virtues such as staying informed or serving on a jury don’t seem as important as they once did ? especially among the younger generation.
The findings fit with research that’s been worrying many experts who study civic engagement or advocate for teaching more about civics in school.
“I don’t see any recovery,” said Rutgers University Professor Cliff Zukin. “The people who were 40 two decades ago aren’t as engaged as the people who were 60 two decades ago. This generational slippage tends to continue.”
Science is telling us that ethnic diversity causes significant problems by diminishing valuable social capital. What then should we do about it?
It was not the kind of message a Harvard seminar expects to hear. Ethnic diversity causes a lot of problems, our guest speaker told us. It reduces interpersonal trust, civic engagement, and charitable giving. It causes us to disengage from society, like turtles shrinking into their shells, reducing our overall quality of life. The more diversity we experience in our lives, the less happy we are.
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I routinely hear appeals for Jewish unity. Here’s one I got via email today from a worthy organization:
Shalom Luke,
Rav Kook taught that “we need to educate toward spiritual unity.”
I agree – and I am very gratified that Ayeka has become a force of unity in the Jewish world.
We educate to individual unity, seeking to harmonize mind, body, and soul. We focus on community unity in our cross-city Soulful Education training. Acharon acharon chaviv, we care about Jewish People unity, with every Ayeka mixed cohort comprised of rabbis and educators from every type and affiliation.
I feel that this approach has helped to deepen and cohere my own life.
In an often scattered, confusing, and multi-tasking world, we need to be at one with ourselves, our communities, and our nation.
If this vision resonates with you – please help us expand our programs to reach even more participants, institutions, and cities.
I expect that every group has appeals like this, every group but whites. I would not be expected to hear blacks, Muslims, Mexicans, etc appealing for unity, but if I heard about an appeal for white unity, I’d immediately think about Nazis. Why? Because the Nazis are the most famous example of an explicit call for a type of white ethnic unity.
You probably react to this one of two ways. One way is to say, if Nazism was a movement of white German ethnic unity, then it wasn’t so bad. The other common reaction is that when whites call for unity, it leads to genocide and is an evil thing that must be opposed. Whites are the one group that are not allowed to have group interests.
What rarely gets mentioned in all calls for strong in-group identity is that hostility to outsiders is inevitably a part of all strong in-group identity. That does not mean that every Jew who strongly identifies as a Jew will be hostile to non-Jews, but it does mean that fostering a strong in-group identity, such as Jewish, will lead generally (though not among every member of the in-group every minute of the day) to hostility to outsiders.
Americans segregate themselves by race at every opportunity. They chose to live among their own, to work among their own, to socialize among their own, and to worship among their own. The more people are forced to mix with different races, the more unhappy they are (in general).
Science is telling us that ethnic diversity causes significant problems by diminishing valuable social capital. What then should we do about it?
It was not the kind of message a Harvard seminar expects to hear. Ethnic diversity causes a lot of problems, our guest speaker told us. It reduces interpersonal trust, civic engagement, and charitable giving. It causes us to disengage from society, like turtles shrinking into their shells, reducing our overall quality of life. The more diversity we experience in our lives, the less happy we are.
I came to Harvard to study public policy in the fall of 2004. All of the first-years like me had to take a special seminar class where we would discuss the philosophy of science and the nature of good research. The best class days featured established scholars who would come to present their own papers, which were real-life examples of good research.
The guest speaker who came to discuss diversity was political scientist Robert Putnam, who is something of a celebrity in academic circles. With the publication of his 1995 article “Bowling Alone,” Putnam helped bring the issues of social trust and civic participation to the forefront of social science. His article became a popular book, also called Bowling Alone, in 2000. Written for a general audience, the book chronicled the rapid decline in civic engagement that had taken place in the United States since 1950, and argued that communities without strong social ties are less happy and less successful. The article and the book garnered Putnam numerous media appearances and spawned reams of response articles in academia.
Putnam began by telling us about one result he encountered that was thoroughly upsetting to him—the more ethnically diverse a community is, the less social capital it possesses. When a person lives in a diverse community, he trusts everyone less, including those of his own ethnic group.
So how did Putnam come to conclude that ethnic diversity is so problematic? The answer begins with the notion of “social capital,” which Putnam defines in simple terms—“social networks and the associated norms of reciprocity and trustworthiness.” Social capital turns out to be an exceptionally valuable commodity. Building complex networks of friends and associates, trusting others to keep their word, and maintaining social norms and expectations all grease the wheels of business by enabling cooperation.
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"This guy knows all the gossip, the ins and outs, the lashon hara of the Orthodox world. He’s an [expert] in... all the inner workings of the Orthodox world." (Rabbi Aaron Rakeffet-Rothkoff)