{"id":9993,"date":"2009-08-24T09:15:21","date_gmt":"2009-08-24T17:15:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=9993"},"modified":"2009-08-24T09:15:21","modified_gmt":"2009-08-24T17:15:21","slug":"when-chabad-goes-too-far","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=9993","title":{"rendered":"When Chabad Goes Too Far"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nachum Lamm posts on Facebook: I got on a plane from Israel some time back and sat down next to a kid with tefillin on- it was about 10:30 AM. His mother (sitting between us) explained that he would be bar mitzva-ed in about a month. So far, so good, apart from the time?<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me jump ahead and say that he barely wore his kippah during the flight. Nu, OK, he&#8217;s not religious, but tefillin are good, right?<\/p>\n<p>Until I saw him put on a second pair. Rabbenu Tam. Gevalt. And then I saw that the two tefillin bags had pictures of 770 on them, and I didn&#8217;t have to ask what had happened.<span class=\"text_exposed_hide\">&#8230; <span class=\"text_exposed_link\"><a onclick=\"CSS.addClass($(&quot;text_expose_id_4a92c44bb2d0a6c48191748&quot;), &quot;text_exposed&quot;);\">Read More<\/a><\/span><\/span><span class=\"text_exposed_show\"><\/p>\n<p>To tell a mother that she needs to buy *two* pairs of tefillin for her son- one pair is expensive enough- without explaining that this is uniquely (for unmarried men) a Chabad custom and that one pair is just fine for him is simply unconscionable.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nachum Lamm posts on Facebook: I got on a plane from Israel some time back and sat down next to a kid with tefillin on- it was about 10:30 AM. 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