{"id":9641,"date":"2009-08-08T21:00:55","date_gmt":"2009-08-09T05:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=9641"},"modified":"2009-08-08T21:00:55","modified_gmt":"2009-08-09T05:00:55","slug":"the-well-timed-smack","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=9641","title":{"rendered":"The Well-Timed Smack"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On his radio show August 26 (third hour), Dennis Prager said: &quot;I used to be opposed to it [smacking a kid]. I did not raise my kids with it. Over the course of time, watching children, talking to adults with different views, I have come to change my mind. I think the well-time, well-placed, loving but firm smack is a very good idea. The book of Proverbs says &lsquo;Spoil the rod, spare the child.&rsquo; I&rsquo;m prepared to differ with a Biblical verse but it turned out to be right. I don&rsquo;t think you can reason with a four year-old, let alone a two-year old.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;I speak to so many adults who were whacked as kids and tell me they were better for it. Callers have changed my mind throughout my career.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;The thing that must be absent from such physical discipline is humiliation. That I do believe permanently injures a child. That&rsquo;s a no-no &mdash; the humiliating of a child. It should always be done with the child closed.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;The well-timed smack is eloquent with a three year old. &lsquo;You just don&rsquo;t that.&rsquo; Smack.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Knowing the strong opposition to corporal punishment by Prager and his psychiatrist friend Dr. Stephen Marmer, I used to enjoy saying to them at Stephen S. Wise temple from 1994-1998, &quot;I got smacked all the time and look at how I turned out.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>They always got wry smiles on their faces.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On his radio show August 26 (third hour), Dennis Prager said: &quot;I used to be opposed to it [smacking a kid]. I did not raise my kids with it. Over the course of time, watching children, talking to adults with &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=9641\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[18405,18406,4567,29761,18404,18403],"class_list":["post-9641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dennis-prager","tag-biblical-verse","tag-book-of-proverbs","tag-corporal-punishment","tag-dennis-prager","tag-physical-discipline","tag-talking-to-adults"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9641"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9641\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9642,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9641\/revisions\/9642"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}