{"id":95616,"date":"2016-05-11T07:15:13","date_gmt":"2016-05-11T15:15:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=95616"},"modified":"2016-05-11T07:15:13","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T15:15:13","slug":"it-is-good-to-feel-heard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=95616","title":{"rendered":"It Is Good To Feel Heard"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Goy Philosopher tells me: Yes and that&#8217;s such a rare experience, feeling that you&#8217;ve been heard and truly heard the other person.  And especially rare for people with our outsider beliefs and attitudes.  One reason why I like your blog.  I have lost a lot of friends over the years.  I am always being told that I&#8217;m &#8216;extreme&#8217;, that my ideas are &#8216;disturbing&#8217; or &#8216;menacing&#8217;, symptoms of some mental problem.  &#8216;Why are you so angry all the time?&#8217;, &#8216;Why do you always focus on the negative?&#8217;, &#8216;Why do you hate so many people?&#8217;, and so on.  Even close long-time friends and people who are fairly tolerant and open-minded will usually eventually end up saying things like that.  I don&#8217;t know how to respond.  As far as I can tell, I&#8217;m just right, basically, about what is going on.  I didn&#8217;t make the world, and I can&#8217;t help caring about myself and my descendants and the cultural world that my ancestors created.  My whole civilization and race are dying, and no one cares.  I wish someone could convince me I&#8217;m wrong about this.  I&#8217;d love to never think about these topics again.  But no one has anything convincing to say.  So how else am I supposed to be?  Anyway, I&#8217;m grateful that there are some like-minded people out there.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Goy Philosopher tells me: Yes and that&#8217;s such a rare experience, feeling that you&#8217;ve been heard and truly heard the other person. And especially rare for people with our outsider beliefs and attitudes. One reason why I like your blog. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=95616\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-95616","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95616","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=95616"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95616\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":95617,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95616\/revisions\/95617"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=95616"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=95616"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=95616"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}