{"id":9127,"date":"2009-06-08T21:05:05","date_gmt":"2009-06-09T05:05:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=9127"},"modified":"2009-06-08T21:05:05","modified_gmt":"2009-06-09T05:05:05","slug":"smart-women-marry-money-says-new-book","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=9127","title":{"rendered":"Smart Women Marry Money Says New Book"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fred emails: Gentlemen:   This book doesn&#8217;t exactly break new ground.  However, I assume that since you are all born romantics, you are undoubtedly outraged by and eschew the cynical notions contained therein.   I was particularly piqued by the ethnic stereotype contained in the last few sentences of the second page.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/print?id=7757369\">From the ABC News report<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>&quot;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.perseusbooks.com\/perseus\/book_detail.jsp?isbn=0762435178\" target=\"external\">Smart Girls Marry Money: How Women Have Been Duped into the  Romantic Dream &#8212; and How They&#8217;re Paying for It.<\/a>&quot;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;If falling in love is a valid reason to get married, then falling out of  love is a reason for divorce,&quot; said Ford, whose husband left her two years ago  to raise their now 8-year-old son, motivating her to write the book.<\/p>\n<p>Ford&#8217;s enthusiasm for the topic was also fueled by a younger sister who  graduated from college &quot;looking for love&quot; and ended up with &quot;slacker guys who  don&#8217;t pay the rent.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Her co-author, Drake, left her husband, because he had no concern for the  couple&#8217;s finances. She is now remarried with two children.<\/p>\n<p>A good marriage, they both say, is an economic partnership. And research  shows that if a couple stays together long enough, the passionate love will  reignite.<\/p>\n<p>Such was case with one blogger on the Web site Urban Baby who said her best  friend had always dated &quot;rocker guys&quot; but, instead, married a Jewish MBA  consultant.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;She admits that he is not as sexy, interesting or thrilling as her past  boys,&quot; she wrote. &quot;But he is understanding and kind and super intelligent. I &#8216;m  sure that loft in Tribeca didn&#8217;t hurt either.&quot;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fred emails: Gentlemen: This book doesn&#8217;t exactly break new ground. However, I assume that since you are all born romantics, you are undoubtedly outraged by and eschew the cynical notions contained therein. I was particularly piqued by the ethnic stereotype &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=9127\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[210,619],"tags":[11141,17916,17915,17918,17917,17919],"class_list":["post-9127","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating","category-marriage","tag-abc-news","tag-economic-partnership","tag-ethnic-stereotype","tag-romantic-dream","tag-smart-girls","tag-urban-baby"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9127","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9127"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9127\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9128,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9127\/revisions\/9128"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9127"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9127"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9127"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}