{"id":90126,"date":"2016-03-15T20:46:13","date_gmt":"2016-03-16T04:46:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=90126"},"modified":"2016-03-15T20:46:32","modified_gmt":"2016-03-16T04:46:32","slug":"the-unorthodox-orthodox-rabbi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=90126","title":{"rendered":"The Unorthodox Orthodox Rabbi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A woman writes me: He and I were communicating via email and facebook for a brief time at the same time as I was going through a divorce also. However, he and I stopped talking and did not speak again until he called me July 2013.  He and I met up and had a brief 5 month fling that includes going to 3 different swingers clubs together and atlantic city casino trip. I was single, going through a break up and just wanted to have fun. I can confirm that he was on a lot of pain medication and at one point was hitting himself in the face cause I wanted a good night kiss but he was in too much pain and just started hitting his face. He also told me he dated 2 strippers and had a threesome with his 2 maids at his New York home.  He bought me marijuana and vodka and we would just meet at hotel rooms and spend time together. He became very cruel at the end, calling me amoral, however the swingers clubs were his idea. We didn&#8217;t participate with others but were together there. We stopped hooking up and he moved to Indonesia shortly after. We last saw each other the end of December 2013, we went to a Christmas themed swingers party in philadelphia, and after that i was done going to this types of places, so he lost interest.<\/p>\n<p>I dont care what the man does in private, but orthodox rabbi he is not, orthodox jew, he is not, he should not be on radio or have a public career. 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