Look! Not all Jews are pushy and dishonest in business. It is only a tiny number that give the rest of us a bad name. Oy vey!<\/p>\n
In most of these conflicts described in the story below, Jews tend to win, though there are occasional setbacks such as the Holocaust.<\/p>\n
I know a lot of Jewish real estate agents and none of the ones I know behave this horrible way (though they are far more aggressive than the WASPs I grew up among), and yet none of the bad behavior described surprises me and none of the reaction against it surprises me. Different groups have different interests and they’re competing for scarce resources such as land. <\/p>\n
The more traditional the Jew, the less likely he is to deeply concerned with the law of the land, except to the extent he needs to be to stay safe. Orthodox Jews have their own way of life. They just happen to live in America or Canada or Australia.<\/p>\n
I love the real estate agent who says opposition to the Orthodox pouring in is motivated by fear of the unknown. I’d say the opposition is motivated by fear of the known. In Australia, for example, there’s little anti-Semitism except for in Sydney and Melbourne, where people are more likely to meet real live Jews. <\/p>\n
Orthodox Jews and orthodox Muslims and blacks and latinos are not inherently good guys or bad guys. It depends on their behavior and it depends on the old dynamic of who, whom? Who is doing what to whom? Whose ox is gored? If you want to keep a sleepy polite low-intensity neighborhood, you are not going to want Orthodox Jews moving in. As with all insular groups, the stronger the Jews’ Jewish identity, the less likely he is to be concerned with those outside the group. <\/p>\n
A lot of Orthodox Jews don’t take the same care with their landscaping and their yelling and their general behavior that good citizen WASPs usually take. Orthodox Jews have other concerns, such as keeping God’s commandments. Orthodox Jews are not the bad guys here, they are the bad guys for those residents of Toms River who want to maintain a different type of community than the one many Orthodox Jews want to create. What we have here is not a failure to communicate but a genuine conflict of interest. <\/p>\n
Modern Orthodox Jews tend to make good neighbors and to keep up their yards. More traditional Jews are less likely to be concerned with such niceties.<\/p>\n
If Orthodox Jews dominate a neighborhood, they are not going to want to pay taxes to support public schools. Their concern is with developing Jewish schools, just as whites dealing with a lot of blacks and latinos become increasingly opposed to funding social welfare programs that will largely be used by non-whites. <\/p>\n
The more generations Jews live in the West, the more they assimilate to Western norms. Most Jews in the United States, however, are from Eastern Europe, where they live in an atmosphere of mutual loathing with the goyim for centuries. Jews from Western Europe, by contrast, found much to admire and imitate in gentile life.<\/p>\n
I think it is clear that the Orthodox are going to run this neighborhood in question. Whether the town, like Postville before it, is better for that remains to be seen.<\/p>\n
Many of the problems the Orthodox are having in this new town could be diminished by consideration for the other party’s point of view.<\/p>\n
I suspect that most non-Orthodox Jews will have more sympathy for the town than for the Orthodox in this fight. <\/p>\n
REPORT<\/a>:<\/p>\n \nEvery home is big on glass in a Toms River, New Jersey, neighborhood called North Dover. Windows let in the sun, or show off chandeliers in multistory entrance halls. They show up on doorsteps to tell owners that if they don\u2019t sell, they\u2019ll be the only non-Orthodox around. Strangers, sometimes several to a car, shoot photos and videos. When they started pulling over to ask children which house was theirs, parents put an end to street-hockey games. …The friction reflects increasing insularity among the most religious Jews worldwide. In Israel, the Haredi inhabit a largely separate social world, according to a Pew Research Center survey this month. They share few connections even with their fellow Jews and there is scant intermarriage; 89 percent of the Haredim surveyed said all or most of their close friends belonged to their own community. The opposition, he said, has nothing to do with dislike of Jews, but with a fear that Toms River will become like Lakewood\u2019s more tattered sections, with cars parked on lawns, overgrown landscaping, trash piled at curbs and residents crowding single-family homes. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Look! Not all Jews are pushy and dishonest in business. It is only a tiny number that give the rest of us a bad name. Oy vey! In most of these conflicts described in the story below, Jews tend to … Continue reading
\nThese days, though, most homeowners draw the blinds, retreating from brushes with a fast-growing Orthodox Jewish community that\u2019s trying to turn a swath of suburban luxury 10 miles (16 kilometers) from Atlantic beaches into an insular enclave. The rub, a township inquiry found, is \u201chighly annoying, suspicious and creepy\u201d tactics used by some real-estate agents.<\/p>\n
\n\u201cIt\u2019s like an invasion,\u201d said Thomas Kelaher, Toms River\u2019s three-term mayor, who\u2019s fielded complaints from the North Dover section since mid-2015. \u201cIt\u2019s the old throwback to the 1960s, when blockbusting happened in Philadelphia and Chicago with the African-American community — \u2018I want to buy your house. You\u2019ll be sorry if you don\u2019t.\u2019 It scares the hell out of people.\u201d
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\nThe upset has its roots in adjacent Lakewood, home to yeshivas including Beth Medrash Govoha, among the world\u2019s biggest centers for Talmudic study. Scholars typically marry young and start large families that maintain strict gender roles and limit interaction with secular society.
\nRabbi Avi Schnall, state director of Agudath Israel of America, which represents Orthodox Jews on political, social and religious issues, said a few sales agents \u201care overly aggressive and making a bad name for the others.\u201d He declined to say whether anti-Semitism is at work, but said the \u201cextent of the anger\u201d in Lakewood\u2019s neighboring towns is deep, fueling opposition to a learning center, a boarding school, dormitories and other proposals.<\/p>\n
\nThough just 10 percent of America\u2019s 5.3 million Jewish adults identify themselves as Orthodox, they have much larger families than others of their religion, and \u201ctheir share of the Jewish population will grow,\u201d according to a 2015 Pew survey. Their conservatism could \u201cshift the profile of American Jews in several areas, including religious beliefs and practices, social and political views and demographic characteristics.\u201d
\nLakewood, once a rural destination for Rockefellers and other industry titans, is now a land of synagogues, religious schools, kosher groceries and residential neighborhoods in the grip of minivan gridlock. It\u2019s also a place testing the limits of zoning enforcement for 95,000 people, at least half Orthodox, by Schnall\u2019s estimate…<\/p>\n