{"id":8963,"date":"2009-05-15T07:51:40","date_gmt":"2009-05-15T15:51:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=8963"},"modified":"2016-08-16T13:46:59","modified_gmt":"2016-08-16T21:46:59","slug":"power-in-personal-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=8963","title":{"rendered":"Power In Personal Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The one who loves the least in a relationship controls the relationship. 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