{"id":88208,"date":"2016-02-21T18:06:08","date_gmt":"2016-02-22T02:06:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=88208"},"modified":"2016-02-21T18:06:08","modified_gmt":"2016-02-22T02:06:08","slug":"lean-in-lose-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=88208","title":{"rendered":"Lean In, Lose Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><A HREF=\"https:\/\/heartiste.wordpress.com\/2016\/02\/19\/victorian-era-shitlord-valentines-cards\/\">From the Chateau<\/a>: During the Victorian era, men would sometimes hand out spinster shaming cards like these to ugly and unfeminine women on Valentine\u2019s Day (any feminists reading this ought to consult a head asplosion doctor before continuing further):<\/p>\n<p>Women can be shamed into behaving and looking more feminine. Which is a good thing. Too bad we\u2019ve lost that lesson and do the opposite now: shame women for being feminine and looking thin and pretty, and glorify women who act masculine and look like dump trucks.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLean in,\u201d lose love. That\u2019s all you need to know, ladies.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/1890shitlord1.jpeg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-88209\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/1890shitlord1-192x300.jpeg\" alt=\"1890shitlord1\" width=\"192\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-88209\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/1890shitlord1-192x300.jpeg 192w, https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/1890shitlord1.jpeg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 192px) 100vw, 192px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/shitlordpsa2.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-88210\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/shitlordpsa2-242x300.jpg\" alt=\"shitlordpsa2\" width=\"242\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-88210\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/shitlordpsa2-242x300.jpg 242w, https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/shitlordpsa2.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 242px) 100vw, 242px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/shitlordpsa3.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-88211\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/shitlordpsa3-184x300.jpg\" alt=\"shitlordpsa3\" width=\"184\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-88211\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/shitlordpsa3-184x300.jpg 184w, https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/shitlordpsa3.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 184px) 100vw, 184px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the Chateau: During the Victorian era, men would sometimes hand out spinster shaming cards like these to ugly and unfeminine women on Valentine\u2019s Day (any feminists reading this ought to consult a head asplosion doctor before continuing further): Women &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=88208\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[142],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88208","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-feminism"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88208","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=88208"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88208\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":88212,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88208\/revisions\/88212"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=88208"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=88208"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=88208"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}