{"id":7998,"date":"2009-01-21T17:08:27","date_gmt":"2009-01-22T01:08:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=7998"},"modified":"2009-01-21T17:08:27","modified_gmt":"2009-01-22T01:08:27","slug":"men-have-an-advantage-in-ending-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=7998","title":{"rendered":"Men Have An Advantage In Ending Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Almost every woman I&#8217;ve had a relationship with has wanted to talk through our break-up.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the last thing I&#8217;ve usually wanted to do.<\/p>\n<p>If I am not going to be with the woman I love, I don&#8217;t want to talk about it with her. I just want to move on.<\/p>\n<p>If I am not going to be with the woman I don&#8217;t love, I don&#8217;t want to talk about it with her. I just want to move on.<\/p>\n<p>I find it just drives women crazy when you cut off communication. There&#8217;s almost nothing you can do within ethical boundaries that will hurt them more. It&#8217;s one of the few advantages males have in the male-female relationship &#8212; they don&#8217;t need to talk everything through.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jewcy.com\/post\/bad_breakups\">Mia Rut writes on Jewcy.com<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>We all know that &ldquo;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.jewcy.com\/post\/new_year_%E2%80%93_new_facebook_status#\">in a relationship<\/a>&rdquo; status on Facebook doesn&rsquo;t guarantee a &lsquo;Happily Ever After.&rsquo;&nbsp;&nbsp; Just because a Nice Jewish Girl is dating a Nice Jewish Boy doesn&rsquo;t mean that they are automatically right for each other, as I discovered with Bike Boy.&nbsp; Although our relationship started sweetly enough, we ended it with a mutual understanding we really were not a good match.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, I haven&rsquo;t always gone through such amicable splits &ndash; like the guy who dumped me a few days after we put a $500 deposit on my credit card for our vacation in Sonoma or the guy who told me after several weeks of, um&#8230;intimacy that not only was he not over his ex-girlfriend, but if he was he would rather be dating someone else (how low on this list was I?).&nbsp; Okay, so I&rsquo;ve never been dumped by post-it note or text message, but I know that my boys have trolled on-line dating sites before we ended things and have been cheated on more times than I&rsquo;d care to admit (on the bright side two of my exes eventually married and had children with the women they were cheating on me with).<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Almost every woman I&#8217;ve had a relationship with has wanted to talk through our break-up. That&#8217;s the last thing I&#8217;ve usually wanted to do. If I am not going to be with the woman I love, I don&#8217;t want to &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=7998\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[210],"tags":[15706,15705,15704,31599,12612,750],"class_list":["post-7998","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating","tag-bike-boy","tag-ending-relationships","tag-ethical-boundaries","tag-facebook","tag-jewish-boy","tag-rsquo"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7998","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7998"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7998\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7998"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7998"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7998"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}