{"id":7913,"date":"2009-01-14T21:07:27","date_gmt":"2009-01-15T05:07:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=7913"},"modified":"2009-01-14T21:07:27","modified_gmt":"2009-01-15T05:07:27","slug":"happiness-strategies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=7913","title":{"rendered":"Happiness Strategies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just got back from therapy. I was the happiest my therp has seen me. I&#8217;m doing yoga and Alexander Technique and acupuncture. I&#8217;m making new friends. I&#8217;m going out on adventures. I talk to beautiful women every day (and some fatties as well just to be nice). I embody goodness and kindness and inner peace. I meditate every day. I go to shul and daven and study Torah. I listen to Dennis Prager and read great books and talk to friends.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.slate.com\/blogs\/blogs\/happinessproject\/archive\/2009\/01\/14\/six-tips-for-boosting-your-sense-of-self-respect.aspx\">I love these suggestions from Slate.com<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>1. <strong>Do a good deed<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>2. <strong>Make small gestures of good citizenship<\/strong>. Bring your old magazines to the gym so other people can read them. Offer directions to someone who looks lost. Sign up to be an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.donatelife.net\/\">organ donor<\/a>. My current favorite: picking up trash that other people have left on the subway.<\/p>\n<p>3. <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.happiness-project.com\/happiness_project\/2008\/12\/how-to-stick-to.html\">Keep a resolution<\/a><\/strong>. Not only will you benefit from exercising or cleaning out your garage, you&rsquo;ll also get a boost from the mere fact that you made a commitment and stuck to it.<\/p>\n<p>4. <strong>Become an expert<\/strong>. There&rsquo;s great satisfaction in mastery. Pick a subject that interests you and dig in deep: the American Revolution, Photoshop, knife techniques. This can be hard, because learning something new can also make you feel frustrated and stupid, but if you push through, you&rsquo;ll give yourself a huge boost.<\/p>\n<p>5.<strong> Boost your energy<\/strong>. Studies show that when you&rsquo;re feeling energetic, you&rsquo;re much more likely to feel good about yourself. Most important: Get enough sleep. If you need an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.happiness-project.com\/happiness_project\/2007\/09\/this-wednesda-3.html\">emergency energy fix<\/a>, take a quick 10-minute walk (outside, if possible, where sunlight will also stimulate your brain), listen to some great music, or talk to a friend.<\/p>\n<p>6. <strong>Challenge yourself physically<\/strong>. This strategy doesn&rsquo;t work for me, but I know that many people feel great after parasailing, white-water rafting, bungee jumping, or roller coaster riding. For the less daring, a great run, bike ride, or spinning class can do the trick.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just got back from therapy. I was the happiest my therp has seen me. I&#8217;m doing yoga and Alexander Technique and acupuncture. I&#8217;m making new friends. I&#8217;m going out on adventures. I talk to beautiful women every day (and &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=7913\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5769],"tags":[31647,29761,15489,15488,15487,15490],"class_list":["post-7913","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-happiness","tag-alexander-technique","tag-dennis-prager","tag-emergency-energy","tag-good-citizenship","tag-knife-techniques","tag-old-magazines"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7913","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7913"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7913\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7913"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7913"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7913"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}