Emily writes<\/a>: So I told and I told and I told. But after a while it stopped being fun. After a while, somewhere in between our son\u2019s bris and the daily grind of keeping a small synagogue afloat, I stopped wanting to be a hyphenated Jew, a Jew-by-choice. I started to cringe a little when people would start playing Jewish geography with me. Yes, I grew up here\u2026 wait a few beats\u2026 no, I didn\u2019t come to this synagogue as a child\u2026 wait a few more beats\u2026 um, because I wasn\u2019t Jewish as a child. Yes, conversion is fascinating, isn\u2019t it? Insert polite smile.<\/p>\n\u201cIs your husband Jewish?\u201d\u2014that\u2019s another loaded question. If I say yes, which is true, people assume that I converted in order to facilitate marriage to a Jewish husband, but if I tell the truth, that we both converted, then I really have no choice but to tell the entire story and, frankly, it\u2019s not something I want to share with everyone I meet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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