{"id":78148,"date":"2015-10-30T12:40:33","date_gmt":"2015-10-30T20:40:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=78148"},"modified":"2015-10-30T12:44:37","modified_gmt":"2015-10-30T20:44:37","slug":"the-double-standard-on-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=78148","title":{"rendered":"The Double Standard On Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><A HREF=\"https:\/\/heartiste.wordpress.com\/2015\/10\/30\/the-reason-women-initiate-70-of-divorces\/\">From the Chateau<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>* I had to explain last night to a group of men the \u201cdouble standard\u201d of sexuality. They wondered why a man is championed for multiple sexual partners, but a woman is chastised for it.<\/p>\n<p>I told them this \u201cdouble standard\u201d is because women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are visual and a man will walk into a room and pick out which women he wants to have sex with simply based on how they look. Women are not nearly as visual, and when she walks into a room she may find a man visually appealing, but will not have sex with him simply based on his looks. She needs to have an attachment beyond the physical. Because of this, when a man approaches a woman and says \u201clet\u2019s have sex,\u201d she will say \u201cno\u201d a vast majority of the time. End of story. When a woman approaches a man and says \u201clet\u2019s have sex,\u201d he will likely oblige immediately a vast majority of the time.<\/p>\n<p>* I always liked how it was phrased in City Slickers: \u201cWomen need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the Chateau: * I had to explain last night to a group of men the \u201cdouble standard\u201d of sexuality. They wondered why a man is championed for multiple sexual partners, but a woman is chastised for it. I told &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=78148\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-78148","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sex"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78148","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=78148"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78148\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":78153,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78148\/revisions\/78153"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=78148"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=78148"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=78148"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}