{"id":76990,"date":"2015-10-14T17:57:50","date_gmt":"2015-10-15T01:57:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=76990"},"modified":"2015-10-16T20:22:31","modified_gmt":"2015-10-17T04:22:31","slug":"the-truth-an-uncomfortable-book-about-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=76990","title":{"rendered":"The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As I open and start reading the new <A HREF=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Truth-Uncomfortable-Book-About-Relationships\/dp\/0060898763\/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8\">Neil Strauss book<\/a>, I notice a lot of pages about Ingrid, his wife. A warning signal goes off in my head. Love made public rarely goes well for long. I fear he&#8217;s putting too many eggs in his Ingrid basket. <\/p>\n<p>More than six years ago, I read Neil&#8217;s two pick-up books and his Jenna Jameson bio. <\/p>\n<p>I met Neil Oct. 31, 2007, six days after I decided to quit writing about the porn industry:<\/p>\n<p><iframe width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cNTGzJE7lF4\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><iframe width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/-VEjpSgpi1s\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><iframe width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/MknUlN9K3qw\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><iframe width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zHzKI-ioJGY\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><iframe width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cQDfH2EYQTU\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><A HREF=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=31870\">I first learned about eroticized rage in 2011<\/a> and it led me to 12-step for sex addiction.<\/p>\n<p>Excerpts from the new book:<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;when you use sex to restore power or feel better about yourself in a similar way, this is what&#8217;s known as eroticized rage.<\/p>\n<p>Eighty-eight percent of sex addicts, she tells us, came from emotionally disengaged families. 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