{"id":76498,"date":"2015-10-08T20:04:39","date_gmt":"2015-10-09T04:04:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=76498"},"modified":"2015-10-08T20:04:39","modified_gmt":"2015-10-09T04:04:39","slug":"what-makes-for-a-quality-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=76498","title":{"rendered":"What Makes For A Quality Girl?"},"content":{"rendered":"

From the Chateau<\/a>: Maybe in flyover country the number of quality girls hits 25%. In Poland it is 80%. The times have changed and quality girls are no longer the norm.<\/p>\n

So what makes a quality girl? Well, I know what *doesn\u2019t* make a quality girl.<\/p>\n

She has cheated more than three times in her life, or has cheated more than once on the same boyfriend.
\nShe forgets to say \u201cthank you\u201d when you buy her a drink. Buying her a second drink confirms her ingratitude.
\nShe dates around. Dating around \u2014 specifically, seeing more than one person concurrently \u2014 is a prerogative of men only, for reasons having to do with the greater leverage men need to arm themselves with to compete in a dating market that is fundamentally tilted in favor of women. Any girl who makes a habit of dating more than one guy at a time, especially if the parallel dating lasts longer than one month, in order to milk her options is a bad seed. In all my years of banging, one soulsaving thing I\u2019ve learned is to walk away from any girl who I\u2019ve discovered is also dating other men. Even if I beat the competition and win her over, it never ends well.
\nShe tells you she has a long distance boyfriend she loves, then proceeds to bang you anyway. A few months later, you see her groping a new guy, and she\u2019s still with her boyfriend. (That relationship is doomed.)
\nHer default mode is sarcasm, negativity, coarseness, and shamelessness.
\nShe spends twice as much time getting ready for a house party than she spends getting ready for a date with you.
\nShe can\u2019t control her impulse to flirt with other men. Double minus points if she does this in your presence.
\nShe doesn\u2019t seem nervous undressing in front of you the first time.
\nShe fucks you on a pretense of less than the sum total of an hour of conversation, and calls you the next day worried that your condomless sex might have given her something. (She\u2019s been down this road before.)
\nShe is proud to be on the pill and considers her dependence on it a carte blanche slut sanctioner instead of a safety net affection fortifier.
\nShe is cavalier about casual sex.
\nA quality girl does the opposite of all the above. She doesn\u2019t cheat, and if she does she has a plausible rationale. But she will still feel bad about it. She is generous when it is risky to be so. She is positive and lifts people up, not pushes them down to lift herself up. She laughs at the absurdity and beauty of the world, but never at the expense of others. She is warm, and this is something that can\u2019t be taught. She says \u201cI love you\u201d early and often out of conviction, not inquisition. She understands that her heart is more important than her pride.<\/p>\n

A high quality girl is good for standing by, sticking with, supporting always, loving fully, defending righteously, and if the timing is right, embracing for life to the exclusion of all others. She is the type of girl who can enthrall you with her words alone. She can make you smile over the phone. She can be far away but feel near. She is often discovered in the unlikeliest places, and her magic is the energy that animates her pretty face, rather than the other way around.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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