{"id":76242,"date":"2015-10-04T08:43:25","date_gmt":"2015-10-04T16:43:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=76242"},"modified":"2015-10-04T08:43:25","modified_gmt":"2015-10-04T16:43:25","slug":"flipping-the-script","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=76242","title":{"rendered":"Flipping The Script"},"content":{"rendered":"

From the Chateau<\/a>: Flipping the script works. It works because women can\u2019t resist a man who won\u2019t tidily play by the established, and oh so boring, rules. A coy man \u2014 a man who is as circumspect and judgmental and inscrutable as women normally are at the beginning of a courtship \u2014 triggers women\u2019s attraction, much like a woman\u2019s firm round ass and pretty face triggers attraction in men. Male coyness \u2014 aka the art of insinuating you are the one being chased \u2014 is so odd, and so at adds with biological, not to mention social, norms, that women are compelled to chase the man who effectively adopts such a conceit. A woman thinks to herself, or rather she subthinks to herself (because these thoughts never really materialize fully into conscious awareness):<\/p>\n

\u201cThis man is coy for a reason. What is he hiding? And how amazing is this part of him he\u2019s hiding? He hasn\u2019t asked a question of me yet. Does he like me or not? I can\u2019t tell. He must have other lovers at his beck and call. I feel strangely intrigued. I need to know more.\u201d<\/p>\n

Once a woman is put in this chaser pattern, the seduction is yours to lose. She will be the one readily offering information about herself to win your approval, while you will lean back, literally and figuratively, judging her harshly. For it is true that every woman, despite her boilerplate blather to the contrary, secretly wants to be judged by a man. That\u2019s how she knows you\u2019re better than the rest.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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