{"id":75955,"date":"2015-10-02T06:54:45","date_gmt":"2015-10-02T14:54:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=75955"},"modified":"2015-10-02T06:54:45","modified_gmt":"2015-10-02T14:54:45","slug":"4-rituals-that-will-make-you-happy-according-to-neuroscience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=75955","title":{"rendered":"4 Rituals That Will Make You Happy, According to Neuroscience"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eric Barker writes<\/a>: UCLA neuroscience researcher Alex Korb<\/a> has some insights that can create an upward spiral of happiness in your life. Here\u2019s what you and I can learn from the people who really have answers:<\/p>\n

1. The Most Important Question To Ask When You Feel Down<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes it doesn\u2019t feel like your brain wants you to be happy. You may feel guilty or shameful. Why?<\/p>\n

Believe it or not, guilt and shame activate the brain\u2019s reward center.<\/p>\n

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Despite their differences, pride, shame, and guilt all activate similar neural circuits, including the dorsomedial prefrontal cortex, amygdala, insula, and the nucleus accumbens. Interestingly, pride is the most powerful of these emotions at triggering activity in these regions \u2014 except in the nucleus accumbens, where guilt and shame win out. This explains why it can be so appealing to heap guilt and shame on ourselves \u2014 they\u2019re activating the brain\u2019s reward center.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

And you worry a lot too. Why? In the short term, worrying makes your brain feel a little better \u2014 at least you\u2019re doing something<\/em> about your problems.<\/p>\n

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In fact, worrying can help calm the limbic system by increasing activity in the medial prefrontal cortex and decreasing activity in the amygdala. That might seem counterintuitive, but it just goes to show that if you\u2019re feeling anxiety, doing something about it \u2014 even worrying \u2014 is better than doing nothing.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

But guilt, shame and worry are horrible long-term solutions. So what do neuroscientists say you should do? Ask yourself this question:<\/p>\n

What am I grateful for?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Yeah, gratitude<\/a> is awesome\u2026 but does it really affect your brain at the biological level? Yup.<\/p>\n

You know what the antidepressant Wellbutrin does? Boosts the neurotransmitter dopamine. So does gratitude.<\/p>\n

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The benefits of gratitude start with the dopamine system, because feeling grateful activates the brain stem region that produces dopamine. Additionally, gratitude toward others increases activity in social dopamine circuits, which makes social interactions more enjoyable\u2026<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Know what Prozac does? Boosts the neurotransmitter serotonin. So does gratitude.<\/p>\n

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One powerful effect of gratitude is that it can boost serotonin. Trying to think of things you are grateful for forces you to focus on the positive aspects of your life. This simple act increases serotonin production in the anterior cingulate cortex.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I know, sometimes life lands a really mean punch in the gut and it feels like there\u2019s nothing to be grateful for. Guess what?<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t matter. You don\u2019t have to find anything. It\u2019s the searching<\/em> that counts.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s not finding gratitude that matters most; it\u2019s remembering to look in the first place. Remembering to be grateful is a form of emotional intelligence. One study found that it actually affected neuron density in both the ventromedial and lateral prefrontal cortex. These density changes suggest that as emotional intelligence increases, the neurons in these areas become more efficient. With higher emotional intelligence, it simply takes less effort to be grateful.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

And gratitude doesn\u2019t just make your brain happy \u2014 it can also create a positive feedback loop<\/a> in your relationships. So express that gratitude to the people you care about.<\/p>\n

(For more on how gratitude can make you happier and more successful, click here<\/a>.)<\/p>\n

But what happens when bad feelings completely overtake you? When you\u2019re really in the dumps and don\u2019t even know how to deal with it? There\u2019s an easy answer\u2026<\/p>\n

2. Label Negative Feelings<\/strong><\/p>\n

You feel awful. Okay, give that awfulness a name. Sad? Anxious? Angry?<\/p>\n

Boom. It\u2019s that simple. Sound stupid? Your noggin disagrees.<\/p>\n

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\u2026in one fMRI study, appropriately titled \u201cPutting Feelings into Words\u201d participants viewed pictures of people with emotional facial expressions. Predictably, each participant\u2019s amygdala activated to the emotions in the picture. But when they were asked to name the emotion, the ventrolateral prefrontal cortex activated and reduced the emotional amygdala reactivity. In other words, consciously recognizing the emotions reduced their impact.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Suppressing emotions doesn\u2019t work and can backfire on you.<\/p>\n

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Gross found that people who tried to suppress a negative emotional experience failed to do so. While they thought they looked fine outwardly, inwardly their limbic system was just as aroused as without suppression, and in some cases, even more aroused. Kevin Ochsner, at Columbia, repeated these findings using an fMRI. Trying not to feel something doesn\u2019t work, and in some cases even backfires.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

But labeling, on the other hand, makes a big difference.<\/p>\n

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To reduce arousal, you need to use just a few words to describe an emotion, and ideally use symbolic language, which means using indirect metaphors, metrics, and simplifications of your experience. This requires you to activate your prefrontal cortex, which reduces the arousal in the limbic system. Here\u2019s the bottom line: describe an emotion in just a word or two, and it helps reduce the emotion.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Ancient methods were way ahead of us on this one. Meditation<\/a> has employed this for centuries. Labeling is a fundamental tool of mindfulness<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In fact, labeling affects the brain so powerfully it works with other people too. Labeling emotions is one of the primary tools used by FBI hostage negotiators<\/a>.<\/p>\n

(To learn more of the secrets of FBI hostage negotiators, click here<\/a>.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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