{"id":75802,"date":"2015-09-29T22:10:22","date_gmt":"2015-09-30T06:10:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=75802"},"modified":"2015-09-29T22:10:22","modified_gmt":"2015-09-30T06:10:22","slug":"the-ordeal-of-civility","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=75802","title":{"rendered":"The Ordeal Of Civility"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I asked a friend who operates a Jewish store in Los Angeles who the most polite Jews were. He said English Jews followed by Jews whose families have lived in other Anglo countries for many years. Who were the rudest Jews? Those from Morocco and the Middle East.<\/p>\n<p><A HREF=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/John_Murray_Cuddihy\">From Wikipedia<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>John Murray Cuddihy (January 22, 1922 &#8211; April 18, 2011[1] ) was an American sociologist. He was a member of the doctoral faculty at the Graduate School and University Center of the City University of New York (GSUC).<\/p>\n<p>He is the author of No Offense: Civil Religion and Protestant Taste and The Ordeal of Civility: Freud, Marx, L\u00e9vi-Strauss and the Jewish Struggle with Modernity, two books in the sociology of religion. Cuddihy has been described as a &#8220;Catholic atheist,&#8221;, and &#8220;a brilliant yet eccentric critic of contemporary American Jewry&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>In The Ordeal of Civility, Cuddihy explicates the wrenching process of adjusting to modernity experienced by the shtetl Jews of the Pale in the nineteenth and early twentieth centuries who had to adapt quickly from a tribal culture to a modern Protestant civil culture rather than slowly adjusting over the centuries. It is in this context that he locates the efforts of Jewish intellecuals, such as Karl Marx, Sigmund Freud and Claude L\u00e9vi-Strauss to facilitate the transition by providing a cohesive narrative that attempts to universalize the experience and thus provide an apologia to both the ingroup of Jews and the outgroup of gentiles.[5]<\/p>\n<p>In No Offense, a critique of American civil religion,[6] Cuddihy argues that Catholic and Jewish intellectuals in America gave up the distinctive religious claims of Catholicism and Judaism, respectively, in the interests of not offending the Protestant majority. Cuddihy views various intellectual critiques of modernity &#8211; both conservative and radical &#8211; as the product of resentment against the more successful, enlightened, Protestant majority.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I asked a friend who operates a Jewish store in Los Angeles who the most polite Jews were. 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