{"id":74997,"date":"2015-09-20T07:34:02","date_gmt":"2015-09-20T15:34:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=74997"},"modified":"2015-09-20T07:35:00","modified_gmt":"2015-09-20T15:35:00","slug":"should-you-call-out-a-girls-bad-behavior","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=74997","title":{"rendered":"Should You Call Out A Girl\u2019s Bad Behavior?"},"content":{"rendered":"

From Chateau Heartiste<\/a>: Early in the seduction process, before you have cemented the bond with a few nights of…, stern paternal rebukes, however much delivered from a position of non-neediness, will turn girls off. A girl will never \u2014 I mean NEVER \u2014 accept that she bears responsibility for her poor behavior. I don\u2019t care if her fucking life is on the line, she\u2019ll find a way to excuse her actions. Calling an inconsiderate girl out will only add pellets to her hamster\u2019s food dish, and she\u2019ll happily rationalize your scolding so that her decision to flake seems like a good one to her: \u201cWow, that guy is weird. Good thing we didn\u2019t meet up.\u201d<\/p>\n

If you want to blow up any bridges to sex for the thrill of chastising a girl when she\u2019s acting like a bitch, and for helping other guys out who might have to deal with her in the future, I say go for it. I suggest brutally dressing a girl down in front of a group of her friends, or in a public place. \u201cDid your parents raise you to be this way?\u201d is a good line that\u2019ll shut most shrikes up.<\/p>\n

But I wouldn\u2019t make a habit of it. The best way to handle misbehaving, flaky girls that most consistently results in furthering positive interactions with the girls (should you choose to further them) is to do the following, in no specific order of effectiveness:<\/p>\n

\u2013 Ignore
\n\u2013 Tease
\n\u2013 Misdirect
\n\u2013 Demote<\/p>\n

Here are some examples of the above methods.<\/p>\n

Ignore:
\nSelf-explanatory. A girl texts you a day later, you don\u2019t immediately reply, and you don\u2019t let her know that her tardiness even registered in your consciousness. You act like this is just how girls are, and they deserve no better in return. Proceed as if nothing is wrong.<\/p>\n

…Bemused mastery is the alpha attitude women love, and there isn\u2019t much room for indignant anger in that attitude. Especially at the beginning, when neither of you knows each other very well.<\/p>\n

If you act like the typical shit that girls pull gets to you, then she\u2019ll think (rightly) that you don\u2019t have much experience with women.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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