{"id":74394,"date":"2015-09-11T14:02:07","date_gmt":"2015-09-11T22:02:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=74394"},"modified":"2015-09-11T14:23:19","modified_gmt":"2015-09-11T22:23:19","slug":"women-love-drama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=74394","title":{"rendered":"Women Love Drama"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quoting Kristen Stewart: \u201cI feel boring. I feel like, Why is everything so easy for me? I can\u2019t wait for something crazy to fucking happen to me. Just life. I want someone to fuck me over! Do you know what I mean?\u201d<\/p>\n<p><A HREF=\"https:\/\/heartiste.wordpress.com\/2012\/08\/07\/scientific-proof-that-women-love-drama\/\">From Chateau Heartiste<\/a>: Women love to instigate relationship drama, and to wallow in drama, because it reignites the romantic spark. A stoic, self-satisfied, dutiful, honorable, provider beta male is BORING to women because he doesn\u2019t show enough tingle-generating emotion or \u201cconnection\u201d that makes women swoon. This explains why guys like Chris Brown can repeatedly nail hot strumpets like Rihanna.<\/p>\n<p>Rightly or wrongly, women interpret men\u2019s lower emotion and drama baseline as evidence of their withdrawing love and, potentially, withdrawn resources. Those female readers who say this is just evidence that people in general appreciate signs of commitment miss the appropriate sex comparison: it\u2019s only women who feel happier when drama reassures them that they are loved. Men do not need drama to feel loved. Men need access to your pussies to feel loved. In fact, men feel worse when a relationship is going through a dramatic stage.<\/p>\n<p>Many game principles and tactics \u2014 e.g., freeze-outs, backturns, negs, push-pull, dread inducement \u2014 operate under the premise that women crave drama and are particularly attracted to the men who can provide it. A woman\u2019s need for drama as a sign of relationship health and empathic understanding can be co-opted and redeployed by players to increase women\u2019s sexual desire for them. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Quoting Kristen Stewart: \u201cI feel boring. I feel like, Why is everything so easy for me? I can\u2019t wait for something crazy to fucking happen to me. Just life. I want someone to fuck me over! 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