{"id":72968,"date":"2015-08-24T17:52:25","date_gmt":"2015-08-25T01:52:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=72968"},"modified":"2015-08-24T17:52:25","modified_gmt":"2015-08-25T01:52:25","slug":"date-rape","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=72968","title":{"rendered":"Date Rape"},"content":{"rendered":"

F. Roger Devlin writes<\/a>: A few years into the sexual revolution, shocking reports began to appear of vast numbers of young women\u2014from one quarter to half\u2014being victims of rape. Shock turned to bewilderment when the victims were brought forward to tell their stories. The \u201crapists,\u201d it turns out, were never lying in wait for
\nthem in remote corners, were not armed, did not attack them. Instead, these \u201cdate rapes\u201d occur in private places, usually college dormitory rooms, and involve no threats or violence. In fact, they little resemble what most of us think of as rape.<\/p>\n

What was going on here?<\/p>\n

Take a girl too young to understand what erotic desire is and subject her to several years of propaganda to the effect that she has a right to have things any way she wants them in this domain\u2014with no corresponding duties to God, her parents or anyone else. Do not give her any guidance as to what it might be good for her to want, how she might try to regulate her own conduct or what qualities she ought to look for in a young man. Teach her furthermore that the notion of natural differences between the sexes is a laughable superstition that our enlightened age is gradually overcoming\u2014with the implication that men\u2019s sexual desires are no different from or more intense than her own. Meanwhile, as she matures physically, keep her protected in her parents\u2019 house, sheltered from responsibility.<\/p>\n

Then, at age seventeen or eighteen, take her suddenly away from her
\nfamily and all the people she has ever known. She can stay up as late as she wants! She can decide for herself when and how much to study! She\u2019s making new friends all the time, young women and men both. It\u2019s no big deal having them over or going to their rooms; everybody is perfectly casual about it. What difference does it make if it\u2019s a boy she met at a party? He seems like a nice fellow, like others she meets in class.<\/p>\n

Now let us consider the young man she is alone with. He is neither a saint nor a criminal, but, like all normal young men of college years, he is intensely interested in sex. There are times he cannot study without getting distracted by the thought of some young woman\u2019s body. He has little experience with girls, and most of it unhappy. He has been rejected a few times without much ceremony, and it was more humiliating than he cares to admit. He has the impression that for other young men things are not as difficult: \u201cEverybody knows,\u201d after all, that since the nineteen-sixties men get all the sex they like,
\nright? He is bombarded with talk about sex on television, in the words to popular songs, in rumors about friends who supposedly \u201cscored\u201d with this or that girl. He begins to wonder if there isn\u2019t something wrong with him.<\/p>\n

Furthermore, he has received the same education about sex as the girl he is now with. He has learned that people have the right to do anything they want. The only exception is rape. But that is hardly even relevant to him; he is obviously incapable of doing something like that.<\/p>\n

He has also been taught that there are no important differences between the sexes. This means, of course, that girls want sex just as badly as he does, though they slyly pretend otherwise. And are not their real desires verified by all those Cosmopolitan magazine covers he sees constantly at the grocery store? If women are so eager to read such stuff, why should it be so damned difficult to find just one girl willing to go to bed with him?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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