{"id":71091,"date":"2015-07-16T14:56:18","date_gmt":"2015-07-16T22:56:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=71091"},"modified":"2015-07-16T15:03:18","modified_gmt":"2015-07-16T23:03:18","slug":"can-you-imagine-a-man-writing-something-so-precious","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=71091","title":{"rendered":"Can you imagine a man writing something so precious?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><A HREF=\"http:\/\/www.tabletmag.com\/jewish-life-and-religion\/191707\/baring-myself-in-the-mikveh\">Deborah A. Beverly writes<\/a>: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I am naked. Chava, the mikveh lady, has said she\u2019ll listen for me to enter the pool. The room contains a shower, sink, and toilet in an alcove. Think spa. In the shower, where I scrub myself clean according to directions on a laminated card, the soap smells of flowers and mint. Chava says she will enter the room only once I\u2019m submerged. 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