{"id":667,"date":"2007-08-05T21:04:15","date_gmt":"2007-08-06T03:52:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=667"},"modified":"2007-12-08T15:40:43","modified_gmt":"2007-12-08T22:28:43","slug":"what-you-dont-know-can-hurt-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=667","title":{"rendered":"What You Don&#8217;t Know Can Hurt You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thejewishpress.blogspot.com\/2007\/07\/what-you-dont-know-can-hurt-you.html\">Ziona Greenwald writes:<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>The worst kind of tragedy is an avoidable one. The world of shidduchim is full of such avoidable tragedies&#8211;heartache and heartbreak attributable to the actions (and inactions) of misguided human beings. <\/p>\n<p>In <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jewishpress.com\/page.do\/22285\/Rebbetzin%27s_Viewpoint.html\">last week&rsquo;s <\/a>Jewish Press, a mother wrote in to Rebbetzin Jungreis asking whether her son&rsquo;s bipolar disorder must be revealed to the girl he is seriously dating. Her husband says no. The mother is less sure. The boy&#8217;s condition is currently well-controlled by medication, and he&rsquo;s happier than he&#8217;s ever been, so let&#8217;s leave well enough alone, his father says. After all, if the girl and her family find out, she might end the relationship. The mother doesn&#8217;t want to upset the apple cart either, but she&#8217;s uncomfortable about not informing the young woman.<\/p>\n<p>Is anyone else horrified by this so-called dilemma? I shudder to think that these parents are actually considering letting their clinically ill son enter into marriage on false pretenses.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><!--adsense--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ziona Greenwald writes: The worst kind of tragedy is an avoidable one. The world of shidduchim is full of such avoidable tragedies&#8211;heartache and heartbreak attributable to the actions (and inactions) of misguided human beings. In last week&rsquo;s Jewish Press, a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=667\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[191],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-667","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-matchmaking"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/667","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=667"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/667\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=667"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=667"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=667"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}