{"id":65805,"date":"2015-03-15T09:49:40","date_gmt":"2015-03-15T17:49:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=65805"},"modified":"2015-03-15T09:49:40","modified_gmt":"2015-03-15T17:49:40","slug":"she-keeps-threatening-to-leave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=65805","title":{"rendered":"She Keeps Threatening To Leave"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I took a walk on Shabbos with a distraught young black man in a tallis whose new live-in girlfriend had drained his bank account in a month from $5,000 to $2,000. &#8220;If I don&#8217;t keep giving her cash, she&#8217;ll leave me for guys who will,&#8221; he said. I told him he needed to leave her and be on his own for a while to detox. &#8220;I was alone for a year,&#8221; he said. &#8220;I hated it.&#8221; I suggested he go to a 12-step program for sex and love addiction.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I took a walk on Shabbos with a distraught young black man in a tallis whose new live-in girlfriend had drained his bank account in a month from $5,000 to $2,000. &#8220;If I don&#8217;t keep giving her cash, she&#8217;ll leave &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=65805\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26369],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65805","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-addiction"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65805","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=65805"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65805\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":65806,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65805\/revisions\/65806"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=65805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=65805"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=65805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}