{"id":61682,"date":"2015-01-08T10:30:39","date_gmt":"2015-01-08T18:30:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=61682"},"modified":"2015-01-08T19:01:14","modified_gmt":"2015-01-09T03:01:14","slug":"why-am-i-so-open-minded","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=61682","title":{"rendered":"Why Am I So Open-Minded?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A friend asks: &#8220;Why are you so more open than most people? Like than both Democrats and Republicans? I feel like many conservatives would be annoyed watching a TV show that leans left or be too annoyed to appreciate it and vice versa for liberals, they would never enjoy a show that leaned right. You&#8217;ve always seemed more open and tolerant to other people&#8217;s views than the average person, which is a big reason I always enjoyed your writings and your take on things. Were you always that way or did it take many years? I get that a lot of people on the right have to be more open, like Dennis Prager says, because they are more exposed to liberals than liberals are exposed to conservatives but I still think you are much more open to other people&#8217;s ideas than the average conservative. Are your more judgmental than you let on? It doesn&#8217;t seem to come across that way in your writings or videos.  I think only once you looked a bit riled up in a debate I saw you do on religion but that was rare. It also makes people more comfortable being open with you. I&#8217;d be a lot more comfortable telling you my views and opening up to you, which I&#8217;m sure helps you as an interviewer.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I think some of the reasons why I am as open as I am include:<\/p>\n<p>* Growing up in foster care and learning to adapt to anything<br \/>\n* Ten years of psycho-therapy<br \/>\n* Changing religions<br \/>\n* 12-step work<br \/>\n* Frequent humiliation including six years bed-ridden in my 20s with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome<br \/>\n* Alexander Technique<br \/>\n* The profession of journalism<br \/>\n* I like hearing people&#8217;s stories<br \/>\n* When I get triggered, I usually reflect on that and try to work it through so it does not happen again as getting triggered rarely serves me<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A friend asks: &#8220;Why are you so more open than most people? Like than both Democrats and Republicans? I feel like many conservatives would be annoyed watching a TV show that leans left or be too annoyed to appreciate it &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=61682\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61682","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61682","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=61682"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61682\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":61763,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61682\/revisions\/61763"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=61682"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=61682"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=61682"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}