{"id":59834,"date":"2014-11-07T11:38:11","date_gmt":"2014-11-07T19:38:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=59834"},"modified":"2014-11-07T11:38:11","modified_gmt":"2014-11-07T19:38:11","slug":"are-you-phony-if-you-act-differently-around-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=59834","title":{"rendered":"Are You Phony If You Act Differently Around Women?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><A HREF=\"http:\/\/www.askmen.com\/dating\/doclove\/dating-tricks-2.html\">Doc Love says<\/a>: Because you\u2019re going to start treating women as women, and when you do that instead of treating them like men, you\u2019re going to be more successful in your relationships. And you\u2019re not tricking a woman into liking you by following my techniques. You\u2019re treating her like a female, not a male. You\u2019re tricking yourself when you try to treat a woman like a man and expect her to put up with all your negatives like a guy would. 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