How do you create a place where nobody gets hurt? You make lots of rules. In traditional Jewish life, people usually know the rules and this creates a safe space. The same principle holds true for swinging. <\/p>\n
The Atlantic<\/a>:<\/p>\n Inside an unmarked warehouse in downtown San Francisco, a woman greets guests with a riding crop. She is not there to beat them, but to initiate them with a set of firm and binding rules. A chart posted on the wall reads:<\/p>\n State your boundaries. How do you create a place where nobody gets hurt? You make lots of rules. In traditional Jewish life, people usually know the rules and this creates a safe space. The same principle holds true for swinging. The Atlantic: Inside … Continue reading
\nPlay safely and consensually.
\nHave sensible safe sex practices.
\nRespect our space and each other.
\nDon\u2019t linger unaccompanied in play spaces.
\nDon\u2019t cruise aggressively.
\nDon\u2019t get too intoxicated.
\nDon\u2019t take photographs.
\nDon\u2019t use your cellphone.
\nDon\u2019t gossip about what goes on here.
\nUsing the riding crop as a pointer, she lays out the basics for guests entering Mission Control\u2019s Kinky Salon, a monthly San Francisco sex party that dates back to 2003. \u201cKinky Salon is a global movement that promotes sexual liberation by hosting community gatherings where sex is integrated into the social fabric of the events,\u201d reads the Kinky Salon manual, a guidebook to on how to safely construct a sexual play world where no one gets hurt. That means a strict set of boundaries.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"