{"id":57409,"date":"2014-09-08T18:05:17","date_gmt":"2014-09-09T02:05:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=57409"},"modified":"2014-09-08T18:09:05","modified_gmt":"2014-09-09T02:09:05","slug":"looking-for-intimacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=57409","title":{"rendered":"Looking For Intimacy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s a great share from a <A HREF=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=gwjrZYl1sw8&#038;list=PLCoNWFgxjiSUQYu5Ks9S6GXrS45R4Q3Nj&#038;index=13\">Sexaholics Anonymous<\/a> meeting: &#8220;[When] I began to tell God exactly what I was thinking, feeling and doing, I had spiritual intimacy with God. That&#8217;s the solution today for me in my program, not only with God but with other people. My sponsor wants me to call somebody every time I have a lust thought or want to rubberneck&#8230; The key is intimacy. My addiction is settling for counterfeits of intimacy. I am always looking for something to make me feel intimate with another human being because I am so terrified of rejection&#8230; When I talk to you guys, I get that void filled.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Cameron: &#8220;Intimacy starts with safety. If I don&#8217;t provide an environment that is safe for my wife, we won&#8217;t be intimate. The rare times she was vulnerable, I would store that as weapons for future fights.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What you have before sex is what you will have after sex.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s a great share from a Sexaholics Anonymous meeting: &#8220;[When] I began to tell God exactly what I was thinking, feeling and doing, I had spiritual intimacy with God. That&#8217;s the solution today for me in my program, not only &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=57409\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26369],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-57409","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-addiction"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57409","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=57409"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57409\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":57415,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57409\/revisions\/57415"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=57409"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=57409"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=57409"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}