{"id":57163,"date":"2014-09-03T17:58:04","date_gmt":"2014-09-04T01:58:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=57163"},"modified":"2014-09-03T18:12:17","modified_gmt":"2014-09-04T02:12:17","slug":"talking-about-your-addictions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=57163","title":{"rendered":"Talking About Your Addictions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><A HREF=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=e4HYFed0LxE&#038;list=PLCoNWFgxjiSUQYu5Ks9S6GXrS45R4Q3Nj\">A man says 25 minutes in<\/a>: &#8220;My name is Matt and I&#8217;m a sexaholic. My disease manifests itself in fantasy, pornography, lust in all forms, objectifying, rubbernecking women, crossing boundaries, getting lust hits from calling massage therapists without planning to go to them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Twenty two minutes in, Elliott says: &#8220;My obsessions are S-M, voyeurism, exhibitionism. Three years ago, when I entered the program, I could not talk about those things. Today when I qualify at a meeting, I specifically state, &#8220;S-M pornography obtained on a computer at work.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My disease will flourish in secrets. If I don&#8217;t talk about this, that which is hidden continues to grow.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A man says 25 minutes in: &#8220;My name is Matt and I&#8217;m a sexaholic. My disease manifests itself in fantasy, pornography, lust in all forms, objectifying, rubbernecking women, crossing boundaries, getting lust hits from calling massage therapists without planning to &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=57163\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26369],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-57163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-addiction"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=57163"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57163\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":57171,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57163\/revisions\/57171"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=57163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=57163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=57163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}