{"id":55064,"date":"2014-05-19T10:57:46","date_gmt":"2014-05-19T18:57:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=55064"},"modified":"2014-05-19T13:53:52","modified_gmt":"2014-05-19T21:53:52","slug":"people-are-cottoning-on-that-im-only-religious-to-the-extent-it-allows-me-to-be-lousy-to-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=55064","title":{"rendered":"Some People Claim I&#8217;m Religious Only To The Extent It Allows Me To Be Lousy To People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Religion is a great tool to be lousy to people and I have been accused as using it as a club.<\/p>\n<p>Friend: &#8220;Your philosophy is &#8212; it&#8217;s not my problem.&#8221;<br \/>\nLuke: &#8220;I&#8217;m trying to care.&#8221;<br \/>\nFriend: &#8220;You&#8217;re too busy talking to God. You worship Luke.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I wandered around the Israel festival Sunday for four hours, hot and thirsty like the Jews in the desert because there were no drinking fountains and I didn&#8217;t want to spend a dollar on a bottled water. Luckily, two friends came through and one bought me a lemonade and another bought me watermelon. In exchange, I gave them some of my Torah on racism. <\/p>\n<p>Dennis Prager notes there&#8217;s a tension between loving God and loving people. If you really love God, it&#8217;s hard to love people, and if you truly love people, it&#8217;s hard to love God. <\/p>\n<p>You can wear your religion lightly or heavily. You can use it as away to get close to people or to hold them at arm&#8217;s length.<\/p>\n<p>When you belong to a tightly-knit group, it&#8217;s easy to be bigoted against outsiders. Religion can be a great excuse to hate people. <\/p>\n<p>From my understanding of the surveys, religious people tend to treat each other better than average, but they don&#8217;t treat outsiders any better than average. <\/p>\n<p>When you are empty and miserable inside, like I&#8217;ve felt most of my life, it&#8217;s easy to latch on to addictions to escape the pain. When you finally confront that you have a problem and you need to get help, you find that recovery demands two things &#8212; faith in God and growing intimacy with others. When I&#8217;m bonded to others, I tend to act more normal. When I&#8217;m isolated, I get increasingly weird and anti-social. When my faith in God is strong, I tend to behave better than when I feel free. <\/p>\n<p>I notice that many religious people use it as a means of avoiding psycho-therapy and 12-step work. <\/p>\n<p>I burn one little cross on a bloke&#8217;s lawn while on a bender and forever I&#8217;m branded a klansman? My other accomplishments count for zilch?<\/p>\n<p>Joe Diamond: &#8220;It&#8217;s that old &#8220;I built the Autobahn, was kind to kids and animals, but all they talk about is my ordering the deaths of millions&#8221; paradox.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Religion is a great tool to be lousy to people and I have been accused as using it as a club. Friend: &#8220;Your philosophy is &#8212; it&#8217;s not my problem.&#8221; Luke: &#8220;I&#8217;m trying to care.&#8221; Friend: &#8220;You&#8217;re too busy talking &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=55064\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[92],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55064","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-religion"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55064","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=55064"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55064\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":55087,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55064\/revisions\/55087"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=55064"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=55064"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=55064"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}