{"id":50123,"date":"2013-08-04T11:49:09","date_gmt":"2013-08-04T19:49:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=50123"},"modified":"2013-08-04T11:57:51","modified_gmt":"2013-08-04T19:57:51","slug":"what-happened-to-her-relationship-status-on-fb","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=50123","title":{"rendered":"What Happened To Her Relationship Status On FB?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve wasted a lot of time in therapy talking about my hopes for various women simply based on the fact that they removed their relationship status from Facebook and I hoped that meant they were ready for me to swoop in, but it&#8217;s never rolled that way.<\/p>\n<p>If a woman has left her relationship, then I understand her removing that status from her Facebook &#8220;About&#8221; profile, but what confuses me is when women stay in relationships but remove that info from Facebook. Why? Does she hope that by giving the appearance of availability, she&#8217;ll raise her escorting rates? Or have more room to flirt her way ahead? Is she doing it to punish her boyfriend or husband? I suspect that&#8217;s the main reason. I think the main reason we do anything, or pretty close to the main reason, is to hurt people.<\/p>\n<p>What does it mean when a woman removes her relationship status from Facebook? One day she&#8217;s married, the next day there&#8217;s no mention of that. One day she&#8217;s in a relationship, the next day that status is removed. I&#8217;m not talking about changing status from in a relationship to single, etc, but simply the removal of any relationship status while her real life relationship remains. \u202a#\u200econfused\u202c<\/p>\n<p>I wish I could pull off a mullet again. Then women wouldn&#8217;t mess with me like this. <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve wasted a lot of time at parties chatting up women who turned out to be married. Sometimes I&#8217;d invest an hour in a woman and we&#8217;d be in her car and I&#8217;m firing on all verbal cylinders, giving her my A-game, and as I lean over and place my hand on her knee, she tells me she&#8217;s married. I&#8217;ve taken a girl out on a date to shul and as we&#8217;re outside in the night looking at the scenery and my arm is going around her waist, she then tells me that she&#8217;s married. #confused<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve wasted a lot of time in therapy talking about my hopes for various women simply based on the fact that they removed their relationship status from Facebook and I hoped that meant they were ready for me to swoop &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=50123\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[210,10015,21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50123","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating","category-facebook","category-personal"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50123","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=50123"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50123\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":50128,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50123\/revisions\/50128"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=50123"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=50123"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=50123"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}