{"id":49844,"date":"2013-07-15T18:33:49","date_gmt":"2013-07-16T02:33:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=49844"},"modified":"2013-07-15T18:35:51","modified_gmt":"2013-07-16T02:35:51","slug":"im-safe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=49844","title":{"rendered":"I’m Safe"},"content":{"rendered":"

I told my therapist I see things I could do to increase my connection to others, but I don’t care enough to do them. I asked her what do my clothes (I was wearing old black shorts and an old ratty white t-shirt) say about me. She said they say I don’t care. I read her my FB posts and she said that if someone doesn’t know I’m safe, they could be put off and want to distance from me. I read her my writer’s credo<\/a> and she said it sounded like my most important beliefs. <\/p>\n

So I spent much of my therapy tonight scrolling through my FB posts and reading the ones important to me. She was a tad surprised that I made this stuff so public but she figured that my FB friends know who they’re dealing with so the posts shouldn’t come as a shock.<\/p>\n

I had a girlfriend who related that a friend told her when she wore sweats in public, she looked like she had given up. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I told my therapist I see things I could do to increase my connection to others, but I don’t care enough to do them. I asked her what do my clothes (I was wearing old black shorts and an old … Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49844","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49844","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=49844"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49844\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":49846,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49844\/revisions\/49846"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=49844"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=49844"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=49844"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}