{"id":48942,"date":"2013-04-27T21:00:42","date_gmt":"2013-04-28T05:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=48942"},"modified":"2013-04-28T15:05:50","modified_gmt":"2013-04-28T23:05:50","slug":"i-dont-tend-to-put-other-peoples-needs-before-my-own","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=48942","title":{"rendered":"I Put My Needs First"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So I just got asked if I had a problem with putting other people&#8217;s needs before my own.<br \/>\n&#8220;Never had that problem,&#8221; I said. &#8220;I did have a girlfriend who gave me the book, The Givers and the Takers. It wasn&#8217;t because she thought I gave too much.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;So did you read the book?&#8221; my friend asked.<br \/>\n&#8220;No,&#8221; I said. &#8220;I traded her in for a hotter girlfriend.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;So you operated in integrity with yourself,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I just got asked if I had a problem with putting other people&#8217;s needs before my own. &#8220;Never had that problem,&#8221; I said. &#8220;I did have a girlfriend who gave me the book, The Givers and the Takers. It &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=48942\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48942","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48942","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=48942"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48942\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":48945,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48942\/revisions\/48945"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=48942"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=48942"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=48942"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}