{"id":48440,"date":"2013-03-10T11:37:35","date_gmt":"2013-03-10T19:37:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=48440"},"modified":"2013-03-10T11:40:31","modified_gmt":"2013-03-10T19:40:31","slug":"the-advantages-of-facebook","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=48440","title":{"rendered":"The Advantages Of Facebook"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>* I find it easier to be honest on Facebook than in real life because I can just say what&#8217;s on my mind on FB without worrying about how a particular person will interpret what I&#8217;m saying. In real life, I instinctively find myself tailoring and censoring and adjusting everything I say to my audience. On my blog and on FB, however, I just say what&#8217;s in my heart and if people take offense, I don&#8217;t care. In real life in interpersonal relationships, I do care if people take offense and hence I&#8217;m frequently more honest in this space than in the wider world.<\/p>\n<p>* I keep a lot of doors locked, afraid if I ever go into them, I&#8217;ll never emerge.<\/p>\n<p>* Most of the most impressive people I know are in Orthodox Judaism. That&#8217;s always been a powerful draw for me &#8212; the quality of the personal, family and professional lives of Orthodox Jews I know well.<\/p>\n<p>* I am befuddled but strangely moved by the hoopla Rand Paul received this week for his filibuster. I have many fears but none of them include the US Government using drones to kill innocent Americans in America. As for Americans or anybody working as terrorists? Kill them all.<\/p>\n<p>* I was with this girl who was a ten but I had to keep explaining to her when I was being sarcastic and so I decided to go back to the seven to whom I never had to explain.<\/p>\n<p>* If people are on their phones while you talk to them, if they&#8217;re moving around and checking out, it&#8217;s not so much that they&#8217;re being rude as you are being boring. Social connection depends upon bids. We&#8217;re constantly bidding for people&#8217;s attention, and when they don&#8217;t respond, we usually stop bidding. Even a dummy quickly gets the message that he&#8217;s not wanted.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>* I find it easier to be honest on Facebook than in real life because I can just say what&#8217;s on my mind on FB without worrying about how a particular person will interpret what I&#8217;m saying. In real life, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=48440\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48440","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48440","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=48440"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48440\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":48446,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48440\/revisions\/48446"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=48440"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=48440"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=48440"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}