{"id":45891,"date":"2012-08-23T19:00:38","date_gmt":"2012-08-24T03:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=45891"},"modified":"2012-08-23T19:00:38","modified_gmt":"2012-08-24T03:00:38","slug":"the-party-was-exhausting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=45891","title":{"rendered":"The Party Was Exhausting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My friend Scott looked at me and said, &#8220;Are you OK?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I said I was, but I wasn&#8217;t. I was tired. Still in the grip of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome after all these years.<\/p>\n<p>There were all these people at the party and I&#8217;d start to relate to one and then there would be all sorts of different people around and joining in the conversation so I had to keep dumbing everything down to include everyone who wanted to be included. I&#8217;d start one conversation and it would get interrupted and so I&#8217;d move on to try to talk to somebody completely different and my head started aching. I&#8217;m more of a Shabbaton guy than a party guy. <\/p>\n<p>I like how ***** handles herself socially. She reads social cues. I feel comfortable with her. I don&#8217;t feel comfortable with drunks. Anybody out of control frightens me. <\/p>\n<p>What rocked was spending time with people from shul outside of shul. Once the rabbi was gone.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My friend Scott looked at me and said, &#8220;Are you OK?&#8221; I said I was, but I wasn&#8217;t. I was tired. Still in the grip of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome after all these years. There were all these people at the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=45891\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45891","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45891","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=45891"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45891\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":45892,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45891\/revisions\/45892"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=45891"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=45891"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=45891"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}