{"id":45757,"date":"2012-08-16T19:16:41","date_gmt":"2012-08-17T03:16:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=45757"},"modified":"2012-08-16T19:16:41","modified_gmt":"2012-08-17T03:16:41","slug":"i-want-to-make-amends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=45757","title":{"rendered":"I Want To Make Amends"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For my own sanity, I need to make amends to the people I&#8217;ve hurt, so long as making the amends doesn&#8217;t inflict further hurt.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m working the Fourth Step now, &#8220;making a complete and fearless moral inventory.&#8221; Actually making amends is not until Step Eight. I shouldn&#8217;t rush things. <\/p>\n<p>I used to do a lot of juggling multiple women at once. I was scrupulously honest, I thought. I never claimed to any one of them that we were in a committed relationship, but I didn&#8217;t let them know all that was going on with me. This is a tricky area, making amends here might do more damage than good. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For my own sanity, I need to make amends to the people I&#8217;ve hurt, so long as making the amends doesn&#8217;t inflict further hurt. I&#8217;m working the Fourth Step now, &#8220;making a complete and fearless moral inventory.&#8221; Actually making amends &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=45757\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26369,21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45757","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-addiction","category-personal"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45757","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=45757"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45757\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":45758,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45757\/revisions\/45758"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=45757"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=45757"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=45757"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}