{"id":45696,"date":"2012-08-15T05:42:34","date_gmt":"2012-08-15T13:42:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=45696"},"modified":"2012-08-15T05:42:34","modified_gmt":"2012-08-15T13:42:34","slug":"what-do-i-want-in-a-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=45696","title":{"rendered":"What Do I Want In A Woman?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t want to go to bed with Rachel and wake up with Leah. I want someone who does not repulse me when I wake up in the morning and see her without make-up. I don&#8217;t want to have to explain when I&#8217;m being sarcastic. I don&#8217;t want to have to do a lot of explaining period. The more we have in common the better.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t want a woman who&#8217;s high maintenance. I&#8217;m not high maintenance. I don&#8217;t need a ton of care and catering to. I&#8217;m solid. Reliable. My behavior isn&#8217;t all over the map. I&#8217;m predictable. <\/p>\n<p>I want a woman who&#8217;s reliable. Someone who reads social cues. Somebody who shows up on time, who pays her bills, is responsible and hard-working. Orthodox Judaism is hard work. I need someone who can shoulder the load.<\/p>\n<p>I want a woman who wants to take what I have to give and a woman who wants to give what I want to take. I want a good loving woman. I want someone who reads books. That way we&#8217;re not likely to get bored with each other. <\/p>\n<p>I can bring to the relationship the qualities of the hard-working responsible man with good credit and good health. I&#8217;m well-read, curious about life, constantly seeking to grow and to improve. I&#8217;m committed to my weekly psycho-therapy and my daily writing, my daily Judaism and my daily 12-step work.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t want to go to bed with Rachel and wake up with Leah. I want someone who does not repulse me when I wake up in the morning and see her without make-up. I don&#8217;t want to have to &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=45696\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45696","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45696","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=45696"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45696\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":45697,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45696\/revisions\/45697"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=45696"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=45696"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=45696"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}