{"id":43808,"date":"2012-05-20T19:53:23","date_gmt":"2012-05-21T03:53:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=43808"},"modified":"2012-05-20T19:53:23","modified_gmt":"2012-05-21T03:53:23","slug":"bottomless-female-need-frightens-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=43808","title":{"rendered":"Bottomless Female Need Frightens Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have my needs too but they&#8217;re specific. Female need seems so diffuse. You can&#8217;t get your hands on it. When you think she just wants a Slurpee, you find out she really needs all sorts of things you can&#8217;t provide.<\/p>\n<p>Normally, I like it when my girlfriend natters on and on. Every girl I&#8217;ve had has talked more than I have when we&#8217;re alone. That&#8217;s great until she demands that I respond.<\/p>\n<p>What do I say when I can&#8217;t validate her? Her girlfriends do that. &#8220;Oh, sister, you&#8217;re so brave. You&#8217;re a hero for going to HR about your boss.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;m thinking, your story of persecution doesn&#8217;t ring true. If you put up with it for years as you said, then you&#8217;re partially responsible. We train people on how to treat us. If you let your boss abuse you, then that&#8217;s your fault that you didn&#8217;t have the dignity to stand up for yourself when the abuse first happened.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t want to say this but she forces it out of me and then she gets mad and there are no more good times.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have my needs too but they&#8217;re specific. Female need seems so diffuse. You can&#8217;t get your hands on it. When you think she just wants a Slurpee, you find out she really needs all sorts of things you can&#8217;t &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=43808\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43808","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43808","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43808"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43808\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}