{"id":43440,"date":"2012-04-29T15:28:09","date_gmt":"2012-04-29T23:28:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=43440"},"modified":"2012-04-29T15:33:13","modified_gmt":"2012-04-29T23:33:13","slug":"how-do-people-know-im-a-loser","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=43440","title":{"rendered":"How Do People Know I&#8217;m A Loser?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/3TJ6mSMSiRk\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Luke: &#8220;<A HREF=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=43346\">All of my life, I&#8217;ve been into self-help<\/a>. I&#8217;m always trying to improve myself and to change my position in society upward. It&#8217;s done no good. People can still see and they immediately know I belong with the least popular of the popular crowd or the most popular of the unpopular crowd.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Rabbs: &#8220;When we went for a walk on Shabbos? When I normally walk  around Pico-Robertson, people pay no attention to me. I got a lot of stares when I was walking with you, more than I ever get. I got stared down. It wasn&#8217;t a happy stare-down. It was like, why are you with that loser?&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Luke: &#8220;All of my life, I&#8217;ve been into self-help. I&#8217;m always trying to improve myself and to change my position in society upward. It&#8217;s done no good. People can still see and they immediately know I belong with the least &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=43440\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,22467],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43440","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","category-r-rabbs"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43440","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43440"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43440\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43444,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43440\/revisions\/43444"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43440"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43440"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43440"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}