{"id":41016,"date":"2012-02-26T15:48:35","date_gmt":"2012-02-26T23:48:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=41016"},"modified":"2016-11-25T14:17:40","modified_gmt":"2016-11-25T22:17:40","slug":"heres-where-youre-wrong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=41016","title":{"rendered":"Here&#8217;s Where You&#8217;re Wrong!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fewer than one percent of the world&#8217;s Alexander Technique teachers teach the Technique full-time (more than 25 hours a week). Almost all Alexander teachers have fewer pupils than they&#8217;d like.<\/p>\n<p>Alexander pupils are scarce and therefore particularly precious to the teacher. So it hurts when you lose one.<\/p>\n<p>So why do Alexander teachers lose students?<\/p>\n<p>I suspect the primary reason is that we make the student feel wrong.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s easy as a teacher to start pointing out to the pupil things he&#8217;s doing badly. Let&#8217;s say he holds his breath when he gets in and out of a chair, tips his head back, tightens his neck, compresses the torso, locks his knees and generally acts like a right wally in this daily task. <\/p>\n<p>Telling the student, &#8220;G-day mate, you looked like a right wally there&#8221; generally does not create a lasting student-teacher bond. <\/p>\n<p>The teachers who make a go of it with Alexander Technique make their students feel amazing. Julia Caulder and Michael Frederick are a couple of masters of this in Los Angeles. I want to be more like them. <\/p>\n<p>I come from a background that gloried in pointing out to people where they were wrong. I&#8217;ve always enjoyed taking the mickey out of folks. It kept them at arm&#8217;s length.<\/p>\n<p>As I head into my dotage, I&#8217;m trying to let go of my scathing ways. I want to help people, not hurt them. <\/p>\n<p>As a teacher of the Alexander Technique, I assist people in noticing how they respond to stimuli and I show them various ways of letting go of responses that don&#8217;t serve them. Instead of telling them where they&#8217;re going wrong, I try to activate their thinking so that they can see themselves more accurately and not need a guru to point things out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fewer than one percent of the world&#8217;s Alexander Technique teachers teach the Technique full-time (more than 25 hours a week). Almost all Alexander teachers have fewer pupils than they&#8217;d like. Alexander pupils are scarce and therefore particularly precious to the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=41016\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10268],"tags":[19786,16831,27564,29117,29118,26691],"class_list":["post-41016","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-alexander-technique","tag-alexander-teachers","tag-alexander-technique-teachers","tag-caulder","tag-chair-tips","tag-dotage","tag-stimuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41016","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=41016"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41016\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":110023,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41016\/revisions\/110023"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=41016"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=41016"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=41016"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}