{"id":40311,"date":"2012-02-09T12:17:02","date_gmt":"2012-02-09T20:17:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=40311"},"modified":"2012-02-09T12:17:02","modified_gmt":"2012-02-09T20:17:02","slug":"the-perils-of-giving-free-lessons","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=40311","title":{"rendered":"The Perils Of Giving Free Lessons"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It is very tempting as a new Alexander Technique teacher to offer your friends free lessons.<\/p>\n<p>It rarely works out.<\/p>\n<p>Alexander Technique demands a lot from the student and somebody taking a free lesson is unlikely to do the work necessary.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not just that people will show up drunk or high or late, it is that the freeloader is unlikely to treat your observations with any respect. If you point out that they hunch their shoulders when they get in and out of a chair, they&#8217;ll say it&#8217;s not a big deal. Or it&#8217;s just a temporary blip. 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