{"id":3771,"date":"2008-08-17T12:25:51","date_gmt":"2008-08-17T20:25:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=3771"},"modified":"2008-08-17T12:25:51","modified_gmt":"2008-08-17T20:25:51","slug":"taking-the-jewish-thing-seriously","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=3771","title":{"rendered":"Taking The Jewish Thing Seriously"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I email a friend who&#8217;s just moved to LA:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>You should live in Pico\/Robertson or Fairfax\/La Brea if you want to do the Jewish thing&#8230; If you end up having to drive to shul on shabbos, it is a very different experience&#8230; No Orthodox Beit Din will consider you if you don&#8217;t live within walking distance of an Orthodox shul, and if you don&#8217;t go the Orthodox route, you won&#8217;t be accepted as jewish by religious Jews&#8230; I&#8217;m not saying you should believe any particular thing, I&#8217;m just saying if you don&#8217;t go through an orthodox beit din your jewish journey will be unbelievably painful and disrupted&#8230;and you&#8217;ll feel like you&#8217;re on the outside looking in. If you&#8217;ve dedicated your life to being jewish, then don&#8217;t settle for a compromise initially&#8230; I don&#8217;t think you&#8217;ve yet lived in an intense Jewish community. I hope you seize this opportunity and don&#8217;t settle for the easy way where you can just do what you like and nobody will bother you&#8230; Westwood is not very Jewish, it&#8217;s a pale imitation of a Jewish life if you live there. I have a friend who converted through the <A HREF=\"http:\/\/www.rccvaad.org\/\">RCC<\/a>. It&#8217;s serious&#8230; She studies serious torah and halacha almost every day for more than two years now. Nobody anywhere will question her Jewish credentials. She can go on a Birthright Israel trip or through Aish HaTorah. 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