I find this the most nerve-wracking part of a relationship — the first kiss. If she rejects me, 95% of the time, that’s it. I’m just going to slink away. No being friends, I’ve got my pride!<\/p>\n
David DeAngelo writes<\/a>:<\/p>\n I used to have no idea if a woman was ready to be kissed. <\/font><\/p>\n I could be sitting there talking to her, thinking to myself “Wow, her lips really look nice…” but I didn’t know what to do next. This would often leave me kissless, and many times kissless for good, as I didn’t get another chance.<\/font><\/p>\n Here’s what I do now:<\/font><\/p>\n If I’ve been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she’s ready to be kissed, I’ll reach over and touch her hair while we’re talking and make a comment about it. I’ll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of it. <\/font><\/p>\n If she smiles and likes this, I’ll reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time I also glance down at her lips and back up to her eyes a couple of times. If she lets me keep touching her hair, I know that she’s ready to be kissed.<\/font><\/p>\n By using “The Kiss Test” I’ve been kind and complimentary, but by being very SUBTLE about it, I haven’t given her anything she can object to. I now have a way of knowing if she’s ready to be kissed that NEVER gets me rejected—and I know within 5 minutes what it used to take me hours or days to figure out…<\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I find this the most nerve-wracking part of a relationship — the first kiss. If she rejects me, 95% of the time, that’s it. I’m just going to slink away. No being friends, I’ve got my pride! David DeAngelo writes: … Continue reading