{"id":3613,"date":"2008-07-30T13:54:20","date_gmt":"2008-07-30T21:54:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=3613"},"modified":"2008-07-30T13:54:20","modified_gmt":"2008-07-30T21:54:20","slug":"how-to-tell-if-shes-ready-to-be-kissed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=3613","title":{"rendered":"How To Tell If She’s Ready To Be Kissed"},"content":{"rendered":"

I find this the most nerve-wracking part of a relationship — the first kiss. If she rejects me, 95% of the time, that’s it. I’m just going to slink away. No being friends, I’ve got my pride!<\/p>\n

David DeAngelo writes<\/a>:<\/p>\n

       I used to have no idea if a woman was ready to be kissed. <\/font><\/p>\n

       I could be sitting there talking to her, thinking to myself “Wow, her lips really look nice…” but I didn’t know what to do next. This would often leave me kissless, and many times kissless for good, as I didn’t get another chance.<\/font><\/p>\n

       Here’s what I do now:<\/font><\/p>\n

       If I’ve been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she’s ready to be kissed, I’ll reach over and touch her hair while we’re talking and make a comment about it. I’ll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of it. <\/font><\/p>\n

       If she smiles and likes this, I’ll reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time I also glance down at her lips and back up to her eyes a couple of times. If she lets me keep touching her hair, I know that she’s ready to be kissed.<\/font><\/p>\n

       By using “The Kiss Test” I’ve been kind and complimentary, but by being very SUBTLE about it, I haven’t given her anything she can object to. I now have a way of knowing if she’s ready to be kissed that NEVER gets me rejected—and I know within 5 minutes what it used to take me hours or days to figure out…<\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I find this the most nerve-wracking part of a relationship — the first kiss. If she rejects me, 95% of the time, that’s it. I’m just going to slink away. No being friends, I’ve got my pride! David DeAngelo writes: … Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[210],"tags":[10861,10859,8694,10860,632],"class_list":["post-3613","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating","tag-being-friends","tag-david-deangelo","tag-first-kiss","tag-kiss-test","tag-lips"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t